MGTOW – Red Flags: She Cuts off Friends

Welcome back MGTOW men. It’s the start of a new week, and for many men that is a bad thing. But, I’m sure that many of you are listening that are pursuing the entrepreneurial career, understanding that the end goal is to free oneself from the system and free oneself from the chains that big business forces you to be attached to.

Another thing will chain you down to being that slave is a woman, and most notably a woman that is volatile, and one of those women is a woman that has no friends. So men, I actually started my YouTube Channel with a series titled women and red flags. The purpose of the red flags series is not to help you pick up a chick, not help you understand women so that you can manipulate them – this is not a PUA guide, the purpose is so that you protect yourself from these women in your life as a whole – whether it’s someone that your friend is dating, whether it’s choosing a boss, dealing with co-workers, being there for support for a brother or cousin that is dating and looking to get married, and also as a cathartic release for you guys that have dealt with a woman that exhibits these red flags, with the red flag of focus being the woman that has no friends today.

And hey men, MGTOW is about going your own way. Not about me choosing that way, and maybe some of you guys will consider dating and marrying in the future. Me, that’s not a part of the my MGTOW path. But I’ve dated women that have either had friends that were not “good friends” so to speak or had friends that they continually cut off or had greater expectations from than what should be expected from a platonic relationship.

These are the things that we are going to look at today, and some of them are off-shoots of this idea of the girl with no girlfriends in her life. These things are:

  • She’s a volatile person and cuts people off
  • She often has no self-awareness and takes no agency
  • All her time will now be spent on you
    • The expectations for you and what you have to provide will mirror a full-time job
    • At work, this means that she will stress over work too much and have no balance
  • The Hybrid Girl: She only has guy friends
    • This woman is often a slut
    • This woman is often territorial
    • Her ability to healthily pair-bond is crushed
    • Her value of platonic relationships, outside of sexual ones, is non-existent.

She’s a Volatile Person and Cuts People Off

The woman that has no friends may not always be a completely bad thing. There are rare cases of women that are better off being alone, better off doing anime, better off reading and working on skills like this. This does happen, although there are reasons not to date this chick as well. But, most women are naturally social. The fact that she has no friends is contrary to what she is biologically built to do and has done for thousands of years.

Others, and many feminists would say the same thing about men. They would contend with the double-standard that “oh, all men are, are just man-whores!”. All they want to do is objectify us. Then, on the other end when we go MGTOW, they don’t see things as black and white and state that, “oh, MGTOW men are just suppressing what they’re biologically inclined to do!” There is a stark double-standard present in these two statements right here. The difference is that men avoiding relationships and dating is fueled by the pursuit of a positive.

The difference with a woman that doesn’t have platonic relationships and doesn’t commune with other women as they’re socially built to do and have done, being a gender that is far more based in the “hive-mind” mentality, is that they’re not foregoing something for a positive. They’re foregoing something for a negative, which is isolation and their own ego.

This is created because this woman is volatile and she cuts people off. Anything will offend this person, and this woman is fixated on how much you protect her and stand up to other people on your behalf. In order to quell this woman’s volatility and to keep her volatility away from you, you will have to put yourself in situations in which you put yourself in shame.

You cannot be an individual and you cannot stand up for another person’s opinions or beliefs when you’re in a relationship with this woman, because everything is perceived to be an attack on her. She always is in defense mode and perceives to be being attacked all the time.

I know this first hand. With one of my exes, she had a few friends before I ended up dating her that she described as really close, like extremely close…I won’t even get into the details. Like most girls do, they had a ton of photos together, shared a ton of memories, did this that and the other and would have traditions.

But, near the time that I started dating her, she started to cut these women off, for things that I don’t even know. They were like phantom issues that began to crop up, and ones that seemed really petty to me. In my eyes, based on description, it seemed like these women were conning her and that she had a real reason to act on vengeance, which she probably did not.

Immediately vendettas are created, they start to unfollow their friends on social media and that’s perceived to be the final straw. If they just cut their girlfriends off Instagram and remove all photos of them from that platform, that it will all be settled.

This girl also cuts off people in her family. While at times boundaries need to be kept and you have to remove negative people from your life, this woman will immediately jump to ghost herself from others in her life and feel justified in doing so.

This is all to say that, men, you never know with this woman. You will always have to be on call with her and you will always be having to prove your worth to her. You have to prove that you will be the hero, and this woman will create a hero complex in you.

You’re going to find yourself beginning to say things like, “I won’t let this happen…I won’t abandon her. I won’t treat her like that. She can trust me. She doesn’t have to worry about me turning my back on her.”

All of these things are things that you’re going to say, but realize that it is pointless, because this woman doesn’t operate on the same reality that you do. She operates in a different world, and she perceives what it means for you to stand up for her to be far different than what she expects. In fact, if you stand up for yourself and sacrifice your dignity, as I’ve done for her in front of my parents and made myself a simp in front of my parents for the sake of standing up for her, that’s the greatest expression of love. For her, that’s what love is, it’s not actually building both of you up, it’s you being a protector and you doing that because she is deficient in having a reliable person in her life.

She has been abandoned most likely in her past, and she is also a control freak. There are a lot of parallels between this woman and the woman that has a Jezebel spirit. They attempt to control everything and control other people in order to keep them in their court, but they actually end up producing everything that they feared would happen to them.

It’s just evidence once again guys that you can’t try to control everything and that the more that you try to, the more hectic your life becomes. This is what this woman runs into, and she’ll cut you off just as quickly and get the alimony or get this that and the other that she was hoping for.

This Woman Will Never Assess Blame to Herself – She has No Self-Awareness

One of the strongest signs of a person that remains a child is someone that has no self-awareness. It’s one thing to see things in front of you and to understand them, but to not understand how you impact them, what you did to either negatively affect it or positively influence, is a sign that you have no self-awareness and understanding of your shortcomings.

Do you want to date a woman that is still a child? Do you want to date a woman that will not be able to take blame for something that she does wrong? Because this woman doesn’t take blame and needs to dish it out on someone that should receive the blame. She will blame circumstances, she will blame things that really have no impact and she will never take agency.

This once again brings up a double-standard. She will take all the credit for things that go well, even if you’re the one that helped her get this job, helped her get in shape, helped her eat a better diet, helped her fix her car – whatever it is – she will take all the credit when it is convenient, but she will ascribe all the blame to the other person or the other circumstance when something goes poor or there is a conflict.

This comes into play with friendships and relationships. This woman doesn’t understand that there is a pattern at work when she can’t keep a friend. Doesn’t it seem concerning that you can’t keep a steady friend for longer than two months? They will argue that it is because they’re their own person and they don’t have time to put up with people that detract from their life and make them worse, or whatever other reasoning they say – which may actually be helpful to learn from in small doses – but they don’t understand that sometimes, you just have to get along with your friend even though they have different political beliefs, or God forbid date someone that you don’t like! Right, sometimes in life you make concessions because you’re willing to play the long game, you expect people to imperfect and you realize that having this platonic relationship with this person is better than not having it at all.

But, these women are often sprinters. They don’t understand the long term benefit of having positive people in their lives, women included. Instead, they burn bridges and ascribe blame. Ascribing blame is like a drug to them. They enjoy it, it gives them a jolt of dopamine as well, and being negative should never be a jolt of dopamine for someone, that expresses that this person is ill in some way. They are into put-downs, and actually, removing someone from their life in the way that they do is self-satisfying.

Avoid this woman because you can’t work with someone that doesn’t accept their faults. You can’t improve your life and you can’t work collectively when they never self-assess. Self-betterment comes after phases of self-reflection, and they have no idea how to do that.

She Will Have No Time But Time for You

This is a scary thing, but I’m sure that you’ve seen the couples out there – and that goes for both guys and girls, that are always together. They are inseparable, and they have no lives outside of the other person. They get up in the morning, get breakfast, go back, sleep, play video games, meet each other after class, after work, they watch all the same T.V. shows and they find their complete and utter security and self-worth in this other person, and never in themselves.

Subsequently, what happens is that you become all that is going in her life, and slowly you lose all connection with what you need to do, how to become a better man, the relationships with your friends, really succeeding, making a career for yourself, and generally keeping up with the flow of life as life doesn’t slow down for anyone.

You will all of a sudden find yourself in an absolute time vortex, with no time to study something or work on a skill. If you really want to learn a language or understand a new philosophy and read up on it, do you really think that you’ll be able to do that in the midst of this type of relationship? For one thing, you won’t have the mental fortitude to do so, and secondly you’re going to be labeled as neglectful for it as well.

Having girlfriends and relationships that are valuable in a woman’s life outside of your own is a sign that this woman is self-actualized in other areas beyond you, most of the time. At least, it’s a better sign that the alternative.

Many men that are merely mediocre in life are men that have sold their time, their free time and even their work time and sleep time out for a woman. If you want to be great, you have to have your time. I have a fascination with greatness. I’m obsessed with it, and the saying says that behind every good/great man is a good/great woman. This can be debated, but what can’t be debated is that no good/great man has a bad woman behind him, and one of the worst qualities is a woman that only has time for you and what you’re doing and never let’s you go out in the wilderness, unchained, and act out on your dreams.

This can also be manifested in a woman at work. Have you ever worked with a woman, or even a man for that matter, that has a non-existent social life of some sort and is only centered around work? If you have, you may have experienced this type of relationship and behavior that a man with a girlfriend that doesn’t have friends, would experience with a co-worker or boss that doesn’t have any friends.

When this happens, this person can become irascible, stressed out and unagreeable. All that matters is work, and when work for example is all that matters, any little problem at work that occurs becomes a crisis because whatever you claim to be the most important thing in your life, will often be expected to be perfect. It’s just the way it is. Have balance, and this woman in your work life, love life or in your family somehow will destroy balance.

The Hybrid Girl: But, She Has a Bunch of Guy Friends – Shouldn’t She Be Cool

Oh man, she has a ton of guy friends?! Like, I swear she gets along with all of my bros and all these other guys, and like…they’re totally platonic, there is no way that this girl has had sex with them, or at least most of them…yeah, maybe a few of them, no big deal, right? She is dating me now, so I don’t have to worry about that, I’m good.”

I almost guarantee you that this woman is fixated on power and has banged most of these guys. This is not a good sign. If she has an unending amount of guy friends, then most of the time this is based off of a sexual attraction. How many guys out there have the time of day for a woman that they’re not sexually interested in? Think about it.

It reminds me of a quote from a rap song music video at the end when the guy in the music video is freaking out when his girlfriend is upset with him for staying home and hanging out with his friends – he says something to the effect, “I’m hanging out with my friends bish, because my friends are F-ing fun!”

Socially, a man wants to hang out with his brothers, because he can often not just talk to them but also do things, go play pick-up basketball, go hunt, go to a game, whatever it is. With a woman you often can’t relate and what you do and have done as a man for thousands of years is merely have the woman for sex and for taking care of that offspring.

Some chicks are a good time and may get a little wild at the bar or wherever you are, but either there is liquor involved, rarely it’s you guys playing pick-up ultimate frisbee at the park – there is usually always sexual energy going on.

Men, be very wary of the girl that is like, yeah, all of my friends are guys. Watch out for that, that’s not a good sign for you as this woman is often very promiscuous, and of course she is gunna be a fan-favorite when she is showing what she has. Often times her ability to pair-bond has been crushed as well as her ability to form non-sexual platonic relationships loses its value and interest in her mind.


Men, I speak on all of these things for a reason because I’ve dated these types of women before that cut people off, that don’t have friends or have only male friends. I know what these things indicate and I know that it is indicative of a woman that doesn’t understand that you don’t get anywhere in life by mercilessly cutting people off. For them, it’s a hobby, for you it’s a problem because now she has all the time to vent to you, try to get you on her side and it’s foreshadowing of her inability to adapt to someone else, which may be you.

If you guys have dated this chick or no a girl that has no real friends, just artificial friends thanks to this artificial AI matrix that we are living in, please share your story and help save another man from falling prey to the woman that always has the C4 planted on that bridge, ready to detonate and not just burn that bridge, but burn that mofo down.

If you want to share even more in-depth, please share your stories with me at or on Twitter at @sunrisehoodie. I want to get a directory going of men that have had these issues and have had similar stories and offer up this directory much like a phone book, and the only way to do this is to hear from you.

Thanks as always for listening men. If you’ve made it to the end, I’m amazed and so appreciative. Until we meet again, enjoy every minute of your Monday night or whenever you hear this, and surround yourself with people that build up, not tear down.

Hoodies up, not down, hoodie is out.


MGTOW – She’s as Sweet as Honey and as Bitter as Gall | 3 Proverbs to Make you MGTOW

“For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey…” Keep that on your mind men as my introductory MGTOW line for today’s Sunday Sermon on the “Five Proverbs that will make you MGTOW or are MGTOW”, the first volume on what may be a very long series within our MGTOW Sunday Sermon series.

Welcome back MGTOW men to my favorite series of all of my MGTOW videos, the MGTOW Sunday Sermon series. There is an unending amount of content when it comes to these videos for this sermon series, but as always, I want your guy’s recommendations.

Before I get going on today’s topic, I want you guys to hit the comments section. Maybe you don’t care about this series and would rather hear me talk about MGTOW in music or more of my personal stories about MGTOW, but I know many have expressed interest in different Biblical topics. To let you know for sure these are the three MGTOW sermons that I have on the docket:

  • John the Baptist and Herodias
  • Adam and Eve
  • Paul’s teachings specifically in 1 Corinthians

Beyond that, it’s all yours guys.

Let’s rewind to about age 11 or 12. I would read my Bible each night before bed, but I never really read anything from the New Testament surprisingly. I never really read the books of the Pentateuch in the Old Testament. You know where I always gravitated to, I always gravitated to Proverbs.

The words hit my heart unlike anything else in the Bible, apart from maybe The Beatitudes from Jesus. The immediate wisdom injected an understanding that was empowering, and to this day I can’t get enough of the wisdom literature. Any proverb from any literature has immense value, but for me, my first introduction to MGTOW was Proverbs from the Bible. Having a mother that is a marriage counselor and three other families in social work, I had a natural fixation on wisdom, advice and most notably – the warnings about women. I still have Proverbs 5:1-6, “Warning Against Adultery” underlined from the Bible I got when I was 13.

It’s been 11 years and that underlined content couldn’t ring any truer. In fact, after going through two relationships in which I threw out all wisdom and understanding for the taste of honey that dripped off the dead lion carcass which was the beautiful girl that was even more beautifully lost in her own lack of a sense of self. Soon that carcass wouldn’t be the lion, it would be me. Soon I would be that dead carcass, filled with honey that didn’t nourish, but filled with honey that once tasted good but took from me the wisdom from my father that I thought I bound around my neck.

But, I didn’t. I didn’t bind that around my neck. I had lost it. Lost that necklace. Enough of me, let’s get going with this Sunday Sermon.

1) Proverbs 2:12-17

12 Wisdom will save you from the ways of wicked men,

   from men whose words are perverse,

13 who have left the straight paths

   to walk in dark ways,

14 who delight in doing wrong

   and rejoice in the perverseness of evil,

15 whose paths are crooked

   and who are devious in their ways.

16 Wisdom will save you also from the adulterous woman,

   from the wayward woman with her seductive words,

17 who has left the partner of her youth

   and ignored the covenant she made before God.

Wisdom in this passage represents something else for us MGTOW men that are looking at the world through the red-hued lenses caused by the red pill injections that are coursing through our veins. Wisdom is red pill knowledge. I could extend this excerpt another two verses but I want to touch on what that would cover in Proverbs 5.

The red pill will save you from the adulterous woman, from her words that are seductive but you know will lead to a loss of a sense of self, that are full of double-standards, that lead to false rape accusations, that lead to simpery, that lead to a loss of direction. Because, this line is prefaced by the power that wisdom, or red pill realizations has on the mind of a man. It keeps us on a straight path.

A straight path is a rare path. Are there many paths in life that are actually straight? Most of the roads that we travel on, even if they’re on a main road in a heavily trafficked town or major city have a slight bend to them.  But, not many are straight. But, in this passage, the straight path is the desired path. The straight path is unlike the path that is tainted with the allure of the adulteress and is full of the crooked ways of men that have sold out for her.

Darkness and confusion belie themselves as clarity in the world today. You literally have to sift through constant messaging that the answers you need are in front of you, only to find the answers in the book that has been discarded. It’s like throwing something valuable in the garbage and not realizing that you have thrown it out and you are rushing to retrieve it from the side of the road as the garbage truck approaches early in the morning on garbage pickup day.

As a MGTOW man, you are not just influenced by the women around you. That’s something that we often forget. We are heavily influence and even more so influenced by the men around us. I know that during times that I surrounded myself with men that were fixated on simpery, making money for the sake of attaining material status and recognition amongst women, then all of a sudden I started to want to bump Migos and get head.

A man’s greatest influence are the closest men to him in his life. There is no such thing as a male and a female apprentice. A man looks to his father, to his closest male influence unlike a man looks up to anyone else in his life. He is looking for that wisdom to bind on his heart and to engrave on his hands.

If that’s not there and you surround yourself with wickedness, then you put yourself in harm’s way. Not only are her ways crooked, but his ways are crooked. Her words are seductive as this passage says, but his words are convincing. His words replace guidance. They are your roadmap.

Choose wisely.

2) Proverbs 4:7

7 The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom.

   Though it cost all you have, get understanding.

The MGTOW movement is rife with wisdom. I think of men like Stardusk or Thinking Ape. I think of huMan. I think of Coterie. I think of Sandman. I think of TFM. Forgive me for missing anyone, but this is what I think of MGTOW, and what I want to think of it. I think of it as red pill understanding that a lot of people can’t grasp.

At times, I almost think it is esoteric. It’s knowledge that can’t be understood unless it’s made aware to you, unless it’s made known. Who is going to make it known? It has to be a collective effort, this is true. Because, here is takes and order – the writer is saying, “Get”. Get wisdom, as if “you have to go and get it!” It can’t just be attained by you sitting there, but the second part of this verse implies that you have to sacrifice.

Men, the thing that I also think about when I think about Sandman, Coterie, Stardusk and huMan is, where are these men to go in modern society? Where are these values also valued. You know where it is, in this small niche that is spreading its capillaries throughout the Internet and slowly through the subconscious of men largely in the Western world, and it is known as MGTOW.

Whatever your definition is of MGTOW, it’s red pill laced. It’s filled with notions about how things truly are and that the path that modern society had laid out of for us, that if we just studied and worked hard we would get a good job and get a faithful wife and happy life. None of this is promised, none of this is guaranteed, and we are waking up to it sharing it to others. We are letting go of all that we once held dear.

There are men, men, I’m talking to you that have lost family members over MGTOW. You’ve gained MGTOW in place of losses of loved ones in your life that have turned from you, producing MGTOW as a response. Men, there is really not much room for a MGTOW man to lay his head today, and not only are you giving up your place amongst those you care about by going MGTOW, often times you are also sacrificing all that you held dear in your heart. MGTOW doesn’t come without sacrifice, but only what is valuable deserves sacrifice, and only what is valuable comes with sacrifice.

Proverbs 5:1-6

1 My son, pay attention to my wisdom,

   turn your ear to my words of insight,

2 that you may maintain discretion

   and your lips may preserve knowledge.

3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,

   and her speech is smoother than oil;

4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,

   sharp as a double-edged sword.

5 Her feet go down to death;

   her steps lead straight to the grave.

6 She gives no thought to the way of life;

   her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.

Once again we have this theme of wisdom, which is expected for a book named Proverbs, but once more, as a MGTOW man, we see this wisdom as red pill knowledge, and the thing that is so stark to me about this is that there is this continual one-way communication between what appears to be a father and his son that he is trying to teach. The father knows the secrets of the adulteress that the son doesn’t know. This harkens back perfectly to my video from the other day. The father’s impact in warning the son of the pitfalls ahead with women is essential, otherwise he will have no understanding but the carnal understanding within him and his shrinking big head and ever-increasing small head.

He will have nothing to base his decision off of but his hormones. It’s essential men. My son…there is a calling, and the son learns from the father. We are all a collective groups of not just brothers but fathers and sons throughout MGTOW, sharing stories and insights about what we know more of and heading what we know less of. Wisdom can’t just be something that you have, it has to be something embedded in your mind, so much so that it is one with the saliva on your lips. It is ready to be spoken at any minute, at any moment. It’s always ready.

But, moving on to the rest of the passage…things of importance, things of value and things of strength are always given analogies. Comparison is one of the best ways for us to explain something, as the other thing has already been conceptualized and explained, all you have to do is connect it. “Faster than a speeding bullet” for example.

But here the woman is compared to things on both ends of the spectrum. She is compared to honey, one of the sweetest things to taste in this age and at this time. There may not be anything sweeter than honey. It is so satisfying, it is good. It’s the best. She is smoother than oil. Back then oil also had significance, far more than it did today, and especially so since the Bible was based in the Mediterranean region where olives and olive oil were rife.

Oil was used to anoint, bless, wash, purify and obviously to consume. Oil was used 192 in the form as “shemen”, which is Hebrew for oil. It’s pervasive throughout the Old and New Testament, and it would be used for ceremonial purposes. It was so commonplace, but it was so highly regarded and the oil quality then was likely unlike anything we’ve tasted. So smooth, so rich, so satisfying, so flawless.

That’s what a woman’s look appears to be. It looks like that cheat meal in front of you that is full of Crispy Creme’s, stuffed crust pizza from Pizza Hut and a sundae from Baskin Robin’s. That’s what she appears to be. It appears as if nothing is wrong.

But, she is also compared to death. She is compared to gall, which is the antithesis of honey. Honey is sweet, but gall is explained to be anything bitter in the Bible. Gall is also referenced as excrement made by the body’s internal organs, toxins. As much as the women can give to you in the moments that she is sweeter than honey, she is also as bitter as what is viewed to be poison. The contrast that we see in so many women that we date. The dichotomy between the highs and lows. The contrast between the honey and the gall.

That is the woman of not just today, but that is the women of thousands of years ago. That is the same woman being spoken of then as we are living with end enduring today. What does she do? She does as your enemies do. You could be in your home, you could be in your place of work. You are theoretically in places of physical safety, and you’re not in the front lines as Uriah was, getting assailed by arrows and stabbed by these double-edged swords. But, even though you’re not in those places, guess where you are? You are still in arm’s length away from being disemboweled by her.

You are always on the battlefield. Not only is she leading you to death, she is literally walking there, and based on my interpretation of this verse, she seems to be okay with it. She seems to have this in her plans the entire time and doesn’t fear walking to death and taking you to the slaughter. Her feet have paved this path many times, but she still doesn’t even know it.

This is the proof that a woman will lead you there if you let her. She will take you not just by the hand, but she will grab you by the tie and rip you into the bathroom and not bang you in the stall, but she will flush you down the toilet straight to death, because she has no many stopping her.

Men, especially when women are becoming increasingly more distant from themselves, impure because of the tainting messaging of the world and a lack of moral direction, women in relationships want to be removed from the light. Anytime that I brought up spirituality in the past or God, it was shot down. I had a piece of paper that I had kept from a student that lived on the same floor of the dorm that I lived on, who wrote a disparaging letter about how I shouldn’t have any Christian music on the radio in the bathroom. I kept it, as a reminder of what he said and as an example. What did she do when she saw my wallet, she took it and said, “you don’t need this anymore.”

Women feel threatened by this light and they want to take you on the aimless path with them that doesn’t just lead to a dead-end job that is not successful. You know where you go, you go to death. You’re removed from any opportunity to heal yourself and you end up in the grave.

Men, that’s what we are avoiding in MGTOW. While she may not literally kill us, we lose many years of our lives and many days of productivity that could be utilizing all the skills that we were blessed with to help improve this world, but she doesn’t know life. She knows destruction men, and the fact that this was spoken of in Proverbs and that I’ve lived this out just a few years ago as an early-20s cuckhold, is proof that once again, there is nothing new under the sun. Men have the same demands and commands, and women have the same nature.

Don’t let it fool you. Don’t let the media tell you that we’ve made progress. We’ve regressed, and as always, even if you don’t subscribe to the teachings of the Bible, please leave a comment and chime in about your takes on the verses, because it truly illustrates how there is nothing new to behold, just different stories and different ways of saying so.

So, if you’d like to add to my list of MGTOW Proverbs from the Bible, as there will plenty more editions, please let me know at or @sunrisehoodie. I can’t wait to hear from you guys and to hear the stories about how you evaded the girl that was walking you to the slaughter, down the dark path to the guillotine.

You guys are always welcomed here, and I want to hear your suggestions for future videos and how to better reach everyone as we go about our days and enter into another week tomorrow. I hope this week is blessed and I hope some of this message rings true to you the rest of the day.

As always brothers, hoodies up. Hoodie is out.

Hunny, can we please get these cookies?

Hunny, is it alright if we eat ice cream for dinner tonight? Oh wait, only until we get sushi first for dinner.

Hunny, let’s start to eat a vegan diet! You don’t need all of that meat and protein! You don’t need that protein powder that you are always using in your shakes!

Hunny, why don’t just eat kale salads for all of our meals? I saw this on Snapchat. I saw this on Pinterest, blah, blah, blah.

Before you know it, you either see the shopping cart full all of a sudden, while all the guy has bought is some chicken, eggs, some spinach and a case of beer or two.

On the other hand we are seeing the woman fill the cart with food that doesn’t stick, that costs a lot and is inefficient.

Sometimes this isn’t the case, that’s for sure. This is not a one-size fits all situation here. But it is certainly a common occurrence in grocery stores all across the Western world. And if it isn’t the guy that it pushing the cart around in the grocery store, it’s been you. Because, I know it is has been me.

So, considering it is Saturday, let’s talk about what couples all across the United States are doing this weekend, the next weekend and weekends for as long as we don’t get to the point that food is automatically created through our iPhones or appears at our doorstep, fresh and ready to eat thanks to the help of a drone.

First off, the grocery store represents what the male hunter used to represent for the female. The reason that many women go there today, and many used to go there more often than the man, is obviously they had the time to do so during the afternoons and they were ascribed the responsibility of being the ones to take care of the kids and look after their dietary needs, while the father was labeled as the one that couldn’t cook and would give the kids Banquet Dinners or Kid’s Cuisine meals everyday, with the penguin included.

That’s just how it was.

But, the grocery store, and rightfully so due to its convenience, has replaced the male as a provider of sustenance, just as the government has begun to replace the male as a husband and as a father. There are larger, generic, franchised entities that are making this world even more impersonal and less reliant on males, and thus women are given another reason in their eyes to push males away and claim that they are dominating the spheres of society. Thus, the grocery store is now the new hunter. And thus, the grocery store and the culture that it creates, is the new husband and social group in some sense for many women.

With that background, as the grocery store is like a gym in many respects, it’s where the woman goes to pick up guys in many cases and get compliments from men as she toils through a marriage that she is dissatisfied with. It’s more common than you think.

So, today, I’m going to talk about six different observations that I’ve made from being in a grocery store with women, around women or based on my personal experiences with ex-girlfriends and how we can learn from this peculiar sociological fish bowl generated in the 20th century.

The Grocery Store Queen – A Story of my Ex-Girlfriend

I’ll be the first to admit it. There have been times that I’ve been up really late studying or just hanging out with my ex-girlfriends, and all of a sudden they get that insatiable craving for some ice cream or some oreos – this is obviously especially true after they’ve had a little too much to drink.

And, in my college town as an undergrad, the grocery stores were 24-hours a day operating. I would go from grocery store to grocery store, just looking for that one flavor of Ben and Jerry’s because she wanted it. In my eyes, it was like hunting down that nearby deer and not letting go of it, even if the only source of light was the moonlight above me.

That was my mission, and I surely did that more than a dozen times throughout my deplorable dating experience.

But, with one my of ex-girlfriends, she used to tell me how she would be able to just roam the grocery store however she pleased and pick out whatever she wanted and put it into the cart, with no restrictions. It became a game and it became a sense of feeling like a little kid is essentially what it offered her.

It recreates the feeling of going to the grocery store with your parents and maybe they said, “okay, you get to pick out two things, but that’s it.” I don’t know what that psychology is, but the thing that I don’t get in these situations is that there is a sense of honor that was given to this, that if I didn’t do this, then I didn’t truly love her.

The grocery store is often used as a playing ground. As a field that women will use to prove that she is worthy, based on what you spend for her and how you accommodate her during the experience. That’s what this was here, because she would often bring this up during the trip itself, and knowing me as a cheapskate as I’m sure she would contend, it wasn’t going to fly with me.

Girl being pushed in the shopping cart late at night

This dovetails into another story regarding my ex, and one that I’m sure you’ve seen on Snapchat for all of you younger guys that have spent time on Snapchat. While Snapchat can be pretty deplorable, at least it isn’t full of labels and icons known as Instagram Models. Instead it’s just a modern-form of selling yourself on the digital hookup line with the ability to send text, image and video all to solicit your sexual goods.

But what it also is such a fan of doing is showing off girlfriends to the world, and one of the most common and overdone late-night Snapchat shots of the day, between about 11 p.m. and 2 a.m., is the shot of the girl being pushed around the in shopping cart by her man as she drinks a bottle of beer out of the alcohol section, before actually making the purchase.

Once again, that’s been me. Shame me all you want, I was that idiot that thought it would be fun to tailor the grocery experience once again the cutesy, juvenile experience that many women that are dating these days, want it to be. It’s not cute. It’s immature, and bring this up as a parallel to my story about my ex wanting to have her experience be treated as if it brought her back to her childhood or experiences with her father when they went to the store.

Being in the cart makes her feel small. It makes her feel neotenous. It makes her feel safe. But, in reality, it does none of these things. It’s nothing more than a childish thing to do, and often this is viewed as the paragon of just being fun-loving and chill in a relationship. These types of dating actions rarely end in success, I’ll guarantee you. Most of the time these couples are high when this is happening.

The Girl that Fills up the Cart

The grocery store where a blue pill man goes to die. He doesn’t know how to say no, and even worse, if the couple has reached cohabitation stage, the monetary expenditures that he will incur going to the grocery store could be through the roof. If you don’t have a hold on a girl at the store that isn’t frugal, and I’m not saying that all women will just spend every last dime, but if you’re not careful, then you’ll end up with a fish tank full of beta fish just like you as a beta male.

Because, that’s what happened to me with my first ex. You go to Wal-Mart to pick up some food late at night and I was basically living with my ex-girlfriend at this point, and sooner than later you realize that you are buying a fish tank full of fish, only to buy the fish food, rocks and cleaning materials for months to come.

The bottom line of this story is, you will see who is blue pilled when you go to the store. You will see if a man is in control of the relationship just by looking at his visage as he pushes the cart or she pushes the cart throughout the grocery store. It sounds petty, but it’s true.

I can’t tell you how many guys I’ve seen pushing around a grocery cart and engaged in some contrived argument with their girlfriend over the type of detergent that they buy. This sounds petty, but if she is always saying Tide but you want the Great Value store brand, and she is always winning and she isn’t alright with getting the store brand because it’s cheaper, then things aren’t looking up for you. But, this is just another reason why you should not cohabitate with your girlfriend. There goes you tastes and there goes your money very quickly, and sooner than later you realize that you start making concessions for things and accept your fate and become docile, about to be lead to the slaughter called engagement.

Stealth Trips to the Store

This is when the idea of the stealth trip to the store comes into play. I used to work in a nearby city to the college town that I lived in when I was dating my ex. I would work late nights and not get home till between 11 p.m. and 12 a.m. on many occasions. I was living with my ex in her on campus house at the time, the first mistake, and I remember going to Wal-Mart on the way back and never telling her because I knew that if I told her and I didn’t get something for her she would take offense to it. Sure, she probably would start kicking and screaming, but this is a small sign of a relationship that is not healthy and where you are following as I was. It sounds petty, but I’m sure plenty of you guys have gone to the store for a stealth trip, even if it meant getting something small and meager.

Lastly, The Grocery Store Nightclub

The grocery store has turned into another place for men and women to find a new date, especially men and women between around the ages of 25-40 I would say, that are either looking to freshen up a relationship or starting one.

Everyone has to shop, and thus, you always know that there is a chance to pick someone up at the grocery store. It’s become like the gym, and I’ve seen many men and women hitting on each at the grocery store because they decided to buy the same lunch meat that was on sale.

I’m sorry to say that finding the same lunch meat and eating isn’t much of a commonality, but when you’re going to the grocery to pick up another person, not your food for the week, it doesn’t matter. This isn’t always the case, but you have to watch out for this, especially if you’re going to the Whole Foods and Trader Joe’s of the world I’ve found.


I say all of this stuff first and foremost for you guys to get a laugh and to get a kick out of hearing what you’ve probably long thought about the grocery store and grocery store dynamics. I’ve pointed it out about the gym before, and thus why can’t it apply to the grocery store, because there are certainly a lot of carryover qualities between the two.

Also, just to remind you guys of the small things that you won’t miss when you take the red pill and go MGTOW. You won’t have to worry about hiding your diet or even sacrificing your diet for the sake of money or someone else’s opinion. It’s the simple things like this, and I want your antennas to be up the next time that you go to a grocery store and see a couple interacting. Are they arguing? Are they working together? Is he dragging behind? What is it? Because most of the time, this is where blue pill men go to crumble. I’ve seen it in my time as a grocery store observer, and I want to hear yours. Maybe some of you guys have worked in grocery retail and would like to share a story or two!

If so, let me know and hit it up in the comments section and throw down a hoodies up for me brother as we head into Sunday. If you want to reach out to me, I will respond if you email me at It’s great to hear from you, or hit me up really quickly and I’ll get back to you @sunrisehoodie on Twitter.

Tomorrow’s Sunday. Let’s get some rest, and let’s get a MGTOW Sunday Sermon in. Enjoy your night, enjoy your day guys. You know what’s up, hoodies up, hoodie is out.

MGTOW – “Make Sure to Treat Her Like a Gentleman” | Fathers Don’t Warn Men of Women

“Make sure you treat her like a gentleman.”

“Make sure that you hold the car door open for her.”

“Make sure you treat her with respect.”

“Make sure to put herself before you.”

“Hold yourself up like a man would.”

Welcome back MGTOW men. Right there I just listed five statements that have been delivered to men for the past few generations in the western culture. I think of the 1950s, 60s and 70s in particular when I read these lines, thinking of the high school letterman jacket wearing Marine cut hairstyle dude going to take his flapper wearing girlfriend out to the movies on Friday night down the main drag in anytown America.

That’s how things were. Albeit, the man had more influence in those days. They chose the dates and the girls went on them at his accord, but those men were dealing with a woman of a different breed.

But what we are focusing on here is something else. We are looking at the lines that a man receives before he ventures on these dates on a Friday night after whooping the rival school on Homecoming. Those were the days, but the messaging was just as dangerous and as gynocentric as the messaging towards men about how they should treat a lady today.

What I’m getting at today, is the messaging is never cautionary about women. There is never any caution expressed when fathers raise a man, especially in American culture. Maybe this wasn’t the case for you, and you instead had a father that was an alpha and that didn’t feed you blue pill lies, and instead delivered you the harsh-red pill realities about women.

This leave it to beaver generation helped catalyze the feminocracy that is today. Our current state of affairs is not solely a product that exists in a vacuum. It has been created by past generations and this language and the lack of caution and instruction from fathers about the dangers of women is one reason why our generation and generation X and the baby boomers have been destroyed by divorces that women have helped create.

This is because we were never taught. Our examples have been life experiences. I get comments and emails everyday explaining why they went MGTOW. Maybe one in every hundred comment or email that I receive says that my old man taught me the red pill ways of women and gave me criteria to look for if I was to date and what women to stay away from. This just doesn’t happen.

And it didn’t happen for me.

So, as a MGTOW mailbag, today’s video is partially inspired by an email I got a week back focusing on how to raise a kid, whether it is a girl or a boy. He emailed:

Being as a large majority of MGTOW men have suffered through the pains of divorce with children, I wonder if you’d consider doing a video on how to instill red-pill based morals onto boys and (for myself) young girls as the gynocentric world is ever-increasing.

I love my daughter, other than my career and faith she is my main focus and drive in life, and I want to hear possible advice on how to not only make her aware of her nature as she grows into her tweens and teens but how to teach her to build her intelligence and health incase she doesn’t find a man to spend the rest of her life with. God know’s I’m never dating, or getting married again so I won’t ever have a boy, but I want to create the most red-pill self-aware daughter I can.

First off, God bless you for being the one to raise your daughter. A man is put in one of the most difficult situations he can be in by having to raise a daughter in today’s society. While culture is shifting things and making it easier for a girl to succeed thanks to hypersexualization of women and the monetization (not just through prostitution, but affirmative action and giving women jobs because it’s often the right thing to do in many people’s minds – not to mention that they’re developing better skillsets through further education), a woman is more likely to succeed monetarily, but that’s not necessarily in the right way.

But, it’s funny how even mainstream Hollywood films are having the father be the single parent, raising the daughter. For some reason Mark Wahlberg is always the one that is behind that, whether it is in Transformers or in The Fighter, he’s the dad with the daughter, raising it as a lone father. And props to you man, because whenever I think of this situation, I think of a challenge beyond what many men can handle. The constant managing and guidance that needs to be given to a daughter that is being raised today as she is bombarded with ways to sell herself sexually and to act out on gynocentric culture.

To dovetail off of this, I will tell you a story about my father. So my dad has worked in probation his entire life. He has a heart for helping young men out and for being a positive voice for them. He is one of the most positive people that I have ever been around, and I realize more and more how I am like him everyday. From leaving coffee mugs on the tops of cars as we drive away to falling asleep listening to the radio, a podcast or something else –  we do the same things and have the same habits. And looking back on how I’ve dated and how I’ve handled women, I’ve noticed that I acted largely in the same way that he did, although I’ve been thankful to have more experience and not have gotten married – protecting me from a firestorm filled divorce that he would have had if my mother wasn’t an absolute saint.

As I’ve said, my parents have been married 40-plus years, but he still has always taken the lead when it comes to things in life involving my mother. He’s okay with that, and he’s a very simple man, just wanting to watch the Cubs play and making sure that he can listen to his political talk show commentary when doing the dishes each night after work. He doesn’t ask for much and is very subservient in that matter. My mother on the other hand has often called the shots. We recently bought a new car for them, and it was fueled by the type of car that she wants, and he always asks my mom for what is called “spending money’ each time that he needs some money to buy a meal at a local restaurant during his work break or to pay for some gas.

This has never caused a rift and it isn’t inherently bad, but it’s just something that I’ve noticed. When it comes to fixing things around the house, he takes the lead. When it comes to doing my mother’s taxes for her small business, he takes the lead. When it comes to managing the family’s finances as a whole, he takes the lead. These areas are where he expresses his patriarchal right.

But, through this I’ve noticed that my mother has had the control and I believe that it was fueled by the upbringing of the baby boomer culture. The man has the power but he is expected to carry the load where the woman expects him to carry the load. Again, it’s been a great example of a marriage, but it has taught me that a man should take second-fiddle to the direction of the female. This is not true, and it is something that I carried into my dating experiences.

I never dated until I was nearly 21 and my dad hardly dated all throughout high school and into college. In fact, he was set up to take  a girl out to a school dance in high school from the ushering of a high school teacher that wanted him to get the experience of taking a girl out. It’s something that he never did, and at age 24 he got married to my mom and has never looked back. He would have no idea how to flirt. In this regard, I’m not as much like him and I’m far more gregarious and open, but he is far more reserved.

If it taught me something, it taught me to be respectful. It taught me to speak with reason and to only speak after I’ve thought through my words. It’s taught me not to waste my time on women, because neither of my parents ever stated that it should be a priority to me, but it never taught me how to view women. It never taught me how to be.

As a result, I lived in a shell. I would compare it largely to the words from Pink Floyd’s song, “Mother”, in which the main character in the storyline that is “The Wall”, talks about all of the walls that his mother as a single mother put up. When I dated the two chicks that I’ve dated, my mother was the one to talk to me about them. She was the one to ask if I’ve kissed any of them yet. She was the one to find out their personalities. She was the one to ask me what I liked about them. She was the one to tell me what to look out for. She was the one to tell me what to avoid. This is all too similar to the lyrics in “Mother”, in which Pink deplores through these words:

Mother, do you think she’s good enough for me?

Mother, do you think she’s dangerous to me?

Mother, will she tear your little boy apart?

Ooh, aah, mother, will she break my heart?

Hush now, baby, baby, don’t you cry

Mama’s gonna check out all your girlfriends for you

Mama won’t let anyone dirty get through

That was me. My mom didn’t want to let anything dirty get through. And I will tell you what happened on the night that I lost my virginity to the girl that could have landed me with a marriage at 22 or a child before I graduated college. So, I drive four and a half hours to school that day, arriving in my college town at about 11 p.m. at night. All this time my girlfriend, who I hadn’t had sex with yet, is texting me that I need to go buy condoms. So, my mom is also on this ride, following me to school as I needed to bring a larger car, which was her van, in order to bring the stuff I needed for the semester. So, we go out to eat really quick, and during the meal, it’s as if my mom could see right through me. She knew what was going to happen. She tells me,

“First off, don’t go and see her tonight. It’s too late and you’ve been driving all day. Secondly, don’t have sex with her. I don’t know what her sexual past is and if she is a virgin or not, but don’t have sex with her. She is a very cute girl, and I’m not just saying that, because she is. And I want you to watch out for yourself.”
Welp, in my mind, things were already made up. So at three a.m. that night, what do I do, I drive myself over to her house about 20 minutes away and I keep her awake and have sex with her for about 1-2 hours and then I drive back home to sleep in my apartment on campus, without even putting the bedding on my bed. I just said screw it all and drove through the night half awake. I threw it all out the window.

And to think back on it, that’s scary that my mom actually predicted the night that I would lose my virginity at age 20 on August 21, 2014. That was the day. And she was right. She actually was doing me a service.

But, looking back on it, why was it my mom that was telling me this? Why was it my mom that was warning me this at age 20? Why did I have to receive this message now? Sure, I never dated during high school and they never had to worry about me knocking up a chick or bringing home a broad that they wouldn’t approve of, but that doesn’t mean that I should never be warned of women and never be warned of what to expect.

I knew nothing. Despite this girl have a background of abuse and having a background of neglect and having a sexual past that I don’t think that she is proud of, I said that I would be able to fix it all and that as long as I was good, I would be able to get past the roadblocks that are already in place.

That’s not the case, but I didn’t know that. I didn’t know that effort would not solve anything. I did not know that it would not fix anything and that effort doesn’t solve anything. Effort is never the answer, and that you can’t change a woman.

I never once had a conversation about dating with my father growing up. Never once did I speak to him about it or what I should avoid. I was supposed to take the precautionary measures and be aware of them myself. There is immense danger in that, because you end up like many of us men, not knowing what to avoid. Not knowing that a woman first wants you for your resources, and no matter what you do to sacrifice for her and all the meals you pass up and all the hours that you slave away in the gym to maintain your six-pack abs, that it will never be enough for her and that’s not what she wants first and foremost. She wants the resources that you offer.

I didn’t know any of this stuff. I never heard about my dad dating anyone else before he ended up getting married, and I didn’t find out that he did until only a few months ago. Thus, I almost felt like I couldn’t and that I wasn’t going to be as manly as him if I did date.

This is what we can’t have men. We can’t have fathers that are glossing over the red pill dangers about women, dating and what can happen if you don’t value yourself first or understand that whatever you’re taught about relationships in the media, in movies or in school – because if you do, the first experience that a man has is the experience he has going through the wringer. Losing his personal sanity, losing himself, losing his money, and worst, even losing his marriage and kids.

So, brother, thanks for sending me that email. I know that I didn’t answer it directly in regards to raising a daughter. I will look at that more in the future, and I will also like to look at answering how to prepare your daughter for college if indeed you have a daughter that is about to be of age for college.

So, fathers, and for you men that are reflecting on how you came to MGTOW, this is often the case. We are a generation of men, once again, raised by women. If you’re having kids, don’t be that father that doesn’t forget that. Just one conversation about women, delivering the real truth and actually advising a son to look out for women is rarity. Don’t miss that opportunity to do so, because I know that it would have had an enduring impact on me as anytime I heard something of value from my dad that should be heeded, I heeded it.

So men, enjoy your Freedom Friday. And help make sure the next generation knows that Friday nights free are valuable.

Let me know about your experiences with your father and how he influenced you. What do you wish he said to you when he sat you down?

Let me know in the comment section below. I want to hear brothers. As always, hoodies up. Hoodies up.

MGTOW – Shaming Lines Vol. 2: “Are You Sure You’re Straight?”

Welcome back MGTOW men. MGTOW shaming lines are back, you know them. You listed about 150 different shaming lines in the comments section below in part one, so what does that mean to me? That you want me to make more of them? I don’t know, maybe. Maybe it’s just the fact that I’ve been called gay by my ex girlfriends before and told by other random females that the ones that I had in the past just weren’t the right ones and that I’d find the right one because I deserve it.

Well, thank you anyway for the encouragement, that’s really nice and kind of you to think so, but why do I deserve it anymore than the next guy. Why can’t we understand that the world is not just. If it’s not just, then what makes us think that it will be just when it comes to dating, marriage and all that comes with “love”, notice that I put this in air quotes. What makes us think that? What makes us think that is our disproportionate amount of value that we have ascribed to relationships and love.

Thus, when women, and men alike hear about our push to go MGTOW and embrace the freedom that we have granted ourselves by not ascribing our self-value to the Hallmark cards, TLC channels and Nicholas Sparks books around us that bombard us with gynocentric language, we get some mad shaming lines.

I have many more. Men, let’s make this part two of an ongoing series. The content ain’t gunna end anytime soon, and that’s pure gold. You know the drill. If I didn’t list your shaming line in this video, please hit me up in the comment section right next to the #hoodiesup that you send me.

So bros, here is what we have today – five shaming lines that I’m sure you’ve received:


  • You’ll end up in a nursing home!


I answered this one in a MGTOW mailbag last week I believe. My response to this one is simple guys. We are all going to leave this earth alone in one way or another. Your life should not be about risk aversion. It should be about creation in the present moment. I know I’m going back to Fight Club once again, but think of the moment in the move when Tyler Durden is speaking to the narrator, Edward Norton. They are sitting in the car together and Tyler is slowly letting go of the steering wheel as they drift into oncoming traffic before rolling off the side of the road and nearly killing everyone in the car. Upon getting out of the completely busted car Tyler says to the narrator, congratulations, you’ve just had a near-life experience.

You know why he had to drive off the side of the road, because the narrator never lived in the moment. He never did anything that he wanted to. Tyler repeatedly asked him if there was one thing in life that he wished he had done before he was to die. The narrator said nothing, over and over until Tyler was forced by his drive to prove a point to drive off the road and create this experience that would replicate “life” unlike anything the narrator had experienced.

Don’t let this be you. Don’t let yourself live for tomorrow by working that stable job solely out of the pursuit of security, or getting a family, a wife, some kids all to provide yourself the security that you won’t have to find yourself playing bingo in the nursing home day-in-and-day-out. Because, even if you do get married and have a family, why do you think that you have any better of a chance of having your kids and wife around to take care of you.

For the most part, women are outliving men these days. Secondly, with the divorce rates so high, custody in favor of the woman and the absence of strong relationships between fathers and their children becoming more and more of the norm, where are you deriving this confidence from that you will be provided for and given a stable home and someone to look after you once you come of age?

You shouldn’t. Plus, the next generation is becoming increasingly less likely to live a domesticated life that has a consistent place for you to lay your head. Homes and apartments are getting smaller and transience is the norm. You run just as much risk in choosing a family as you do going it on your own.

Plus, never choose a life of security over one of uncertainty filled with the potential of outstanding accomplishment as well. Because, it could be there, and nothing fills a man with more sadness than continually asking a what if question. Don’t be that man, don’t fall to this petty shaming line.


  • Are you sure you’re not gay?


Haha, oh man. I don’t even know what to say to this one. Have you had a chick of yours make the claim that you’re gay? Well, I’ve had my ex girlfriend call me gay in private, sometimes out of a jest of course, but also out of actual conviction. Sometimes they will drop this in front of a group of females as well as a quasi-jest, just to keep you away from the other girls and out of their interest. But, the scary thing is that the more androgynous that society is becoming, gay is becoming more attractive to women.

But, going off the claim that I’ve been called gay by a girlfriend before that I’ve had sex with well over a couple hundred of times, what the heck do I have to do to prove that I’m not gay. The immediate response is to act all carnal and do them doggy style or something, right? No, the best response is to do nothing. Don’t even honor it, because this statement is serving as a strategic statement most of the time.

They are already doubting your level of masculinity, and to further test it, they want to see how you exhibit or don’t exhibit internal strength and control when they test. My ex spoke to me about how her boyfriend after me was so easily triggered. She would comment about how much bigger he was and all of this nonsense to belittle me in what are perceived to be the true markers of masculinity, but we often don’t think that these things and tests that they throw at us, like “you’re gay” are just as much of a meter of our masculinity as your physical size, strength, sexual performance and leadership qualities. Exhibiting internal strength and constraint is vital, and if you don’t, as my ex’s boyfriend didn’t, being bothered – you will be labeled as sensitive.

And even worse for them, if you don’t say anything back and just keep typing away on your keyboard, watching that YouTube video or cooking up some sunnyside up eggs on the skillet, you’ll be the one to bother them, prove them wrong and heap the burning coals on their head that they can’t manage.

Meekness is the goal men. These tests should just provide opportunities for you to work on yourself and exhibit that stoic strength that exemplifies MGTOW. That should be our goal, that should be our exhibition of fervor, of strength.

I’m not really even going to address the notion that you’re gay. If a woman actually believes that you’re gay, and first of all how do they know, then she is someone that makes really informed statements clearly and should be one that you dish immediately to the side. I don’t care if you’re just meeting this woman randomly at the grocery store in between sets at the gym. Move along. Energy vampirism going on right now.

My ex girlfriend had some kind of field day calling me gay! She would call me gay when I denied sex, even though for the first 80 percent of the relationship I’d pretty much do anything to get sex from her. Towards the end I wanted to distance myself from her, and naturally I didn’t want to have sex. She was not kidding when I would make these statements as she’d be laying there on the bed. Looking back, it’s just a reflex mechanism that many women use in response to this level of rejection, but from this story, realize that once again, if the man truly wants to be assertive in a positive way, he’s always going to control the pace and have the upperhand.

I even got a “Sunrise Hoodie sounds gay” comment during my JerryLiu interview that I did on his channel. I love how we get these one liners that are just tossed around from time to time. It truly cracks me up. Oh, and just go and check out the “Identify a Gym Thot” video please as well and press CTRL F and click the word gay or maybe even misogynistic, and I’m sure you’ll get plenty of results.

I just love how there is no in between either.


  • You are so depressed…and/or depressing!


It’s all in the eye of the beholder, right? To a person onlooking to MGTOW what they often see is a life that seems so deprived, so spartan, so bland and so depressing. You know why? You find that our society is often hedonistic. Based solely on attaining and enjoying the pleasures of the greatest kind, whether this is sex, drugs, alcohol, pursuing money, picking up the next chick, or getting the next car just to get a broad riding shotgun.

This is the goal of mainstream society, whether or not it is explicitly recognized, because it’s not going to be recognized as such. Thus, when they see you living that way, when they see you deriving joy in life from things that last not things that are fleeting, including indulging in the only asset that many women of all ages are carrying around with them in life, of course they’re not going to understand and they’re going to see it as depressing.

A Spartan lifestyle so to speak is based on function and it’s based on playing the long game. We are in the business of playing the long game, and we live in a society that is based on an “on demand” culture towards everything, expecting it to be there when we want it and how we want it, or else. What’s depressing is kowtowing before another woman or another man at work or proverbially in the government. What’s depressing is losing your autonomy, not going your own way.

This is why it is also so important to be an example. Don’t go out there proselytizing, but when I go to work for example, I am upbeat and positive about life because I want to express that despite the fact that I may not be rolling in the dough and courting chicks left and right in the eyes of my co-workers that are largely the same age, a man that is exhibiting a MGTOW life brings that energy and liberation that many men in marriage are in chains to.


  • You need to stop masturbating!


The default identity and picture of a MGTOW man is inherently an overweight neck-beard wearing man that has a continual stream of opened lotion bottles sitting askew on his basement desktop computer desk while he is surrounded by a slew of mountain dew bottles and Domino’s pizza boxes.

This man is viewed as a sexually insatiable being and he is lumped into the TFL group that has begun to be characterized as the mainstream identity for many MGTOW men. Society has a notion that men are these sexual beings that cannot be satisfied. While this is often true thanks to the booming porn industry, the media misrepresents it and actually positions it as a reason as to why many women aren’t able to get a good man, because he is too busy masturbating.

They have never thought about the notion that if a man is choosing himself over her, there must be a valid reason and there must be something that she is lacking or that she is putting at risk for the man. There is never self-reflection.

There is also no positive image of a man that doesn’t masturbate, and if he does say that he doesn’t masturbate, they will say that he is like an amoeba, highly asexual and impotent. He is not normal and something is wrong with him. They don’t grasp the positive benefits of no-fap, of rewiring your brain to overcome this desire that is perceived to be necessary for survival – which is sex. Sex replicates you but it doesn’t make you any less capable of surviving on your own right.

On the contrary, women in this situation will act like they know and claim that prostate cancer will come upon you if you don’t clean your pipes. Once again, the amazing forces of nature take care of us, hence we have what are called nocturnal emissions. If you’re needing to clean yourself out, just like the urge to clean yourself out in any other way, a sneeze, going to the bathroom, even a pimple, your body will take care of it.

Once again, many of these statements require pure intuitive thought, and all you can say is nothing. Don’t even entertain them.


  • But you want kids though, right?


Having a kid is one of the easiest things to do in the world. The most out of shape, incapable and idiotic human beings of the world can produce an orgasm and help popped out a kid. It takes no talent and not even any luck to do it. It just happens.

Us MGTOW men have no issues with having kids or getting into the situation to have kids. In fact, as MGTOW men, we are often more capable and prepared for having children, although the decision not to have kids is all that we are making. It’s not an inability and it’s not necessarily a knock against kids in it of itself.

The argument that you’re being selfish and not wanting kids is an argument that is based in the notion of tradition. It’s also the continuation of enslavement language that is used against men. Frankly, return to them by saying, there are plenty of men out there to make sure the next generation is passed on. In fact, there are many men out there that shouldn’t be having kids and are having kids that they probably don’t even know they’ve helped give birth to that are making up for me.

The world will go on. There are 3 billion men out there that are living a life that is being replicated by everyone. There are far more blue pilled men that are looking to get married, even though there seems to be some signs of men waking up – that will take up that cross and have the kids that you’re not going to have.

Tell them about all the other things that you could pour yourself into. All the time and money that you’d save to benefit the lives of many more people. Tell them about the world that you will keep your kids from as well, because the state of things is getting worse and worse by the day.

The reasons are many, and once again, your response isn’t going to be received. And who cares if it is going to be received, because at the end of the day it’s not even about that. It’s about living the life you want, and if someone wants to pick a thing or two up from it after you’re an example, then let them do just that.

Otherwise don’t have kids. Nobody is forcing you and women will often use this line as they understand that is the one thing that a woman can absolutely do that a man cannot. And societal value is generated when people are capable of doing things that other people aren’t. Adding salience to yourself is the differentiating factor here, and when you remove the need for someone to bear your child, then a woman of course will lash out.

All of these crack me up, and if you missed the first five that I spoke on last time, I’ll be sure to link you to that one in a card or in the description below. Please check it out. You won’t regret it, we even get a shoutout from the one and only TFM in the comment section of that video.

Speaking of TFM, I just reached out to him last night and I’m getting booked to appear on his podcast in the near future. Also, a pre-recorded interview with MGTOW is Freedom is in the works as well.

Can’t wait for it all, but in the meantime, I’m waiting for your emails guys. I usually designate two different days a week that I devote sending emails and responding to emails, so if I have an email of yours pending, it’ll be answered soon.

Please hit me up at or at Twitter, @sunrisehoodie.

Keep your eyes up, head up and hoodies up today. Hoodies up, hoodie is out.

MGTOW – We are a Generation of Men Raised by Women

“We’re a generation of men raised by women. I’m wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.”

My father has been in my life my whole life. My parents just celebrated their 40th anniversary and are going to be retiring from their jobs after 42 years this upcoming summer. How often does this still exist? Never. It’s the ideal situation, right? And yet, I still want nothing of it. I still want nothing of marriage. This is not to say that I would discourage you guys, but you know where I stand on this as usual. Just keep this anecdote in mind as I go about the video today.

Welcome back MGTOW men. Have you heard this wisdom before? From none other than Tyler Durden, describing how the input of gynocentrism and the pursuit of the 1950s golden age, TV-tray dinner sporting has desensitized a man’s mind to pursue the suburban home, with a white picket fence all for the sake of 2.5 kids and a content, complacency filled marriage with a wife that they will enjoy having sex with for about a year.

We are a product of the women’s world and paradigm thanks to single-parent homes that are largely led by women that earn custody over their children thanks to the feminist leaning courts.

Why does this line from fight club resonate with us? Because we are pissed about it. Because it has come true for us and its repercussions are many.

Today we will talk about the impact that is had when men are raised by women, and to answer the question stemming from Tyler’s phrase, “A generation of men raised by women. I’m wondering if another woman is the answer we really need.”

To dissect this scene, both Tyler and the Narrator discuss half-hearted guidance from Tyler’s father to live a half-hearted existence at the expense of the system. Each order is prefaced by the phrase, “I don’t know.” Followed by,

  • Go to college
  • Get a job
  • Get married

All before 25. But why would I do this when the system is breaking down. Why would I do this when colleges are teaching me things that don’t get me a job, like liberal arts studies general education requirements when I’m trying to a career in mechanical engineering. Why am I going to college when only 27 percent of college graduates in 2013 are getting jobs in a related field to what they studied.

Why am I getting married when 50 percent of marriages are ending in divorce, and 75 percent of divorce, seat eject buttons have been hit by the women, and the seat eject button isn’t working and our heads are clanging against the glass on the cockpit like Goose in Top Gun. That’s what’s happening. The system is failing us, and the system isn’t made for men anymore. The system is made for women, that are going to college at an almost 2:1 ratio, female teachers are grading male assignments at a 30 percent better rate when their names aren’t on the paper vs. when they are on the paper, that are dominating the school systems and when it comes time for men to do as Tyler did and step out into the real world after a feminized home existence, or in the Narrator’s case, never knowing his father, then there is no hope.

There is nowhere for these men to go.

And men, Fight Club and the fight club that emerged in Fight Club was the response to being this generation raised by women and taught women ideals and taught male subservience at every corner. That was the response for Tyler and the Narrator. But outside of Chuck Palahnuik and David Fincher’s world of Fight Club for the cinema, the world that is being created for us our current one, it’s MGTOW.

MGTOW happens when we are raised by a feminized culture. As I said, my father was around and is still around and has been there my whole life.

Today I’m going to list three areas of life that have catalyzed the creation of the feminized world, derived partly from an article that I read through the Art of Manliness. I will then touch on eight things, the first of potentially a two or three part series as to what happens when we are without male mentors in life.

The Home Life and the Industrial Revolution

So what happened here is that the father was far less likely to be living at the home during the dawn of the Industrial Revolution. Where the work is, the father will go. He is not necessarily engaging in subsistence working, not going out to the farm outside of his home to till the land and feed his family and maybe some neighbors. They don’t have their own animals that they would primarily rely on to support the family.

They had to leave the home and often wouldn’t return until late at night or when their kids had gone to bed. Thus, between going to the local schoolhouse, which was largely taught by women and run by women, combined with being at home all day, boys were growing up with a woman as a model of how to run a household and what was to be expected of a man.

A woman can’t teach a man how to conduct himself as a man, and soon the father’s impact on his life seemed insignificant, as a kid can’t really gauge financial influence and impact that his or her parents’ jobs on their lives until around teenage years – unless things are really difficult.

This ideal would persist, and soon the age of divorce began to be ushered in. A man’s absence from the home combined with the beginning of the free love movement and then the beginning of women entering into once largely male-dominated roles in the workplace brought on the age of divorce. This largely began to peak in the 1980s when states began to embrace no-fault divorce, such a beautiful thing.

Soon the father wouldn’t see their kids until late at night after a long day of work at the factory. Now they would only see their kids every other weekend.

Divorce rates spiked, female-headed families spiked and the fertility rates of unmarried women escalated from 14 for every 1,000 women between 15 and 44, to now 45 women in 1998.


I’ve already touched on education a little bit, and you don’t really need me to explain this much more than I already have either. Just check out my recent, MGTOW in college video – or the advice for a MGTOW going to college. That should provide some semblance of insight into what you should do and consider if you’re going to college.

From 1870 to 1910, the number of female to male teachers spiked from ⅔ to ⅘. Now there are actually far more men in teaching roles in primary and secondary education due to the fact that some of the subjects being taught are tailored more so to men, but also because of the fact that there is reverse-gender rights activism, which is bringing men into jobs that were once largely held by women, just as women are doing.

But, if we are going to look at the rates and overall populations of colleges and their demographic makeups, you see that many colleges are comprised of 60 percent females and 40 percent males. More women are graduating not just with bachelor’s degrees, but as more women are pursuing a system that is tailored for the rewards system that many women possess, and offering higher education opportunities in fields that are continually more unrelated to the actually demands of workers in society, more and more women are staying in school, getting degrees and then returning to teach those same women that they once were 20 years ago. It goes in cycles and it repeats itself and is getting more and more polarized.

College-education systems are being tailored towards women because a college is just as much of a business as any other entity, thus it must keep up to tailor to its audience just as a clothing retailer would.


Let me tell you a story from a semester that I had of Old Testament class at college. Mind you, I wasn’t a Bible major or anything, I studied journalism, but this was a general education class that I was interested in and that I had a good amount of background in.

One of our first assignments was to write a paper with the goal of writing a feminist interpretation of a few stories or situations in the Old Testament. This men, is what has come of many churches. It’s redemption theology for women, looking at how the earth is a mother and that the Holy Spirit is actually a female by using this that and the other obtuse and oblique form of interpretation.

Women are now preaching and men are leaving churches. As the message began to be tailored less and less towards men during the late 20th century, no wonder men opted out and men began to be labeled as the ones far from God. The difference between men and women when it comes to spiritual connectedness to God is that men often have a more rational and consistent relationship with women. Women are not inherently more spiritual, despite the lies and messaging that has been taught to us. Women are rather more influenced and make more sudden progress or declines in their spiritual journey. Thus, the Bible for example preaches that men be the leader of the women and that they conduct their paths and guide their spiritual direction.

That is the difference, and thus that is why you never see male sorcerers these days, male fortune tellers. If you want to know why that’s the case, it’s also because Satan knows where it is easier to infiltrate. Satan goes for the very strong and Satan goes for the very weak.

What is the Impact of all of This?

I’ve listed eight things preliminarily that I will be going through in more depth in future videos, but here are eight results of these causes of women entering into the major spheres of life and raising us. A generation of baby boomers, generation “Xers”, millennials and I think generation “Zers” listening can all relate.


  • It’s why so many men thrive and realize how much they’re thriving when they finally are surrounded in a supportive group of men.



  • Androgyny



  • School teachers graded males 30 percent better when their names weren’t on the page.



  • We look for affirmation



  • We don’t know how to handle situations



  • We don’t know how to assert our power, but when we do, we act out of control



  • We recreate situations and hierarchies that replicate that which we didn’t have in our homes, with our fathers and grandfathers.


    • Dad was gone at work
    • Dad was divorced
    • Dad was spent and disengaged
      • No direct mentoring…no energy to share skills.

It’s sad that many of us have had to learn to be men from websites, forums, YouTube channels and MGTOW live streams. But it’s the truth. And if we don’t have fathers or if we do have fathers and the state or the media are trying to silence their impact on our lives, then we will continually go our own way, and we will continually have conversations in bath tubs in some broken down home and discuss with one another how we aren’t sure if another women in our life is really what we need as the answer.

A man without another man in his life is adrift. The ultimate form of affirmation that a man can receive is that from his father. Let that be a message to you today and let that impact your pursuit of MGTOW and how you influence other MGTOW men, especially for you older MGTOW listeners that could have a large impact on the lives of us younger men.

How would you respond to the three-pronged question that Tyler Durden received from his dad? Let me know in the comments section below. I look forward to hearing from you guys and let me know how you’d like me to take this topic further.

I hope this hump day goes by swimmingly for you. It’s always a blessing.

Hoodies are up, hoodie is out.

MGTOW | The Psyche of a Vengeful Girlfriend

Welcome back MGTOW men. You know what time that it is when I’m making this video? I’m not even sure what time it is, I don’t know if things are real right now, because it is 4:19 a.m. and I’ve been up all day and night, I toss and turn just can’t sleep at night.

You know what used to keep me up at night though that doesn’t anymore, is a vengeful girlfriend. So, while today’s video is inspired by an article that my Singaporean suitemate made me aware of, involving a Russian model that drove her boyfriend’s Mercedes Benz into his swimming pool after he refused to invest $50,000 into her startup business, I want today’s video to look at my life and look back on my experience with a vengeful, or more appropriately, bitter ex-girlfriend.

Today’s video’s goal men is not to bash women, it is to illustrate how many women have become indoctrinated by the mainstream media, by blue pill white knights and by their Instagram feeds, to believe that they deserve everything and that a man’s world revolves around them. This is what happened to me, and this is what happened to Guy Gentile, the 41-year wealthy investor who found his $60,000 ride in a watery residence.

So, I had this ex-girlfriend. We were only dating for a couple of months before we broke up. As a lot of idiotic short-term relationships transpire, we developed I guess what would be a symbol for our relationship. You see a lot of people getting tattoos of a certain item, figure, bug – whatever it is, to represent their relationship and their connection. This is a red flag in itself, as objectifying a relationship through an image that leads to a tattoo for example, is a sign of a over-committed person and dangerous, potentially BPD behavior.

Our image emerged to be a puzzle piece. She bought us matching small-puzzle piece keychains that we could both use and it was fine and dandy. This fits perfectly into the red flag regarding women that believe in signs or providential relationships. This is a way for them to keep you in the relationship and to provide themselves with the belief that there is security and fate behind the relationship, bolstering their confidence for what would otherwise be a relationship that they deem would fail.

So, guess what happens, we break up after about four months. What a surprise, right? No big deal, we have a few classes together the rest of the semester and I overhear her one day talking really loudly to another classmate within earshot of me. The classmate had a really rough day and was explaining how he went from job to job and now is at class. She on the other hand said something to the effect of, “at least you didn’t have what happened to me occur! I was getting out of my car this morning and one of my thongs flew out of my bag that I had at my boyfriends’ house that I had in my trunk and was rolling around the parking lot for everyone to see.” I don’t remember exactly what the story entailed, but why in the world is that comparable to this guys’ long day. All you have to do is pick up the thong and move on. The likelihood that someone even saw this is small.

Sure, this is a small example of things. But it has even a bigger example looming just a few weeks later. So, I haven’t talked to this girl for about two to three weeks at this point. I’m about to fall asleep and I get a text from her. All it is is a tattoo of a puzzle piece on her forearm. I kid you not. She freaking got a red puzzle piece tattoo on her forearm that apparently matched up with another person. I don’t know who that person is, but whoever got that tattoo with her, I hope that they don’t regret it.

I wonder if it was even her forearm that she sent the picture in, I’m not sure, but I bet it was. So, I don’t even care about what is going on in her life at this point, I’m about to go home for three months and be at least 13 hours away from her, but apparently I wanted to see this?

Men, this is an example of narcissistic and vengeful behavior – both of which go hand-in-hand. There is a lack of appropriate understand of the value that they have in your life and that you have in theirs, and thus the make decisions that may even cost them future jobs just to prove an emotional point.

Revenge is rooted in anger, and it is very seldom rooted in justice. Very seldom is it applied appropriately.

That dovetails perfectly into the article that I’m referencing today. You can see it all throughout the Internet, but it first came to me through a Singaporean online outlet with the title, “Jilted girlfriend of prominent U.S. banker dumps his Mercedes into swimming pool”. The connection between these stories, the ones that I told you about an ex of mine and the one involving this investment banker that is 17 years the elder of his 24-year old Russian-born model ex-girlfriend Kristina Kuchma, is that they are both fueled by women that are toxic and women that have placed more value on the relationship with you than anything else in their life.

There is no ground that they are standing on other than the affirmation, sacrifice and relationship that you once had with her, and when that’s gone, it’s an energy vacuum. What is to be done? Revenge.

Why did she do this? Because he said no to her. When asked for $50K to start a marketing business, which was probably a faulty and disorganized attempt at starting an Instagram business knowing her background as a model, he said, “You know what? You got the wrong guy. If you want a guy who’s going to hand you money for nothing, you got the wrong guy,” he reportedly said.

At that point she threw hot green tea into his face and called him disrespectful, taking the car keys to the Benz in the process – mind you, all of this occurred after he graced her with a Gucci bag, iPhone and Dre Beats headphones for her birthday. But, for women like this, narcissistic women, enough is never enough. She claims that he once stated that he would help her start a business and instead switched his mind and only wanted to be an investor. Yes, but only a smart investor, and investing into the business of a chick that has likely never ran any sort of business in her life is not a decision that a smart investor makes.

Gentile saw the next morning that his car was in his pool and he was actually concerned that she was still in it. He realized that she wasn’t and he brushed it off. The fact that he actually had compassion still shows you the difference between men and women in many of these situations. Men are now the empaths. They are the ones that are feeling and are offering emotions when women like Kristina are parasites that only reciprocate emotions during the phases that you’re exhibiting sacrificial behavior that benefits them.

What Can be Learned from This Men?

Men, what Gentile did is what many of us never did. Should he have been dating this chick in the first place if she ended up lashing out like she did, probably not. Because there will always be red flags and warning signs leading up to behavior that is this severe. This is never a one-time thing.

But, he cut off the head of the snake when it was time and when he had the opportunity. Imagine if he had invested in her business and it flopped? Not only would he be out $50K that he would never get back, she probably would have left him as narcissistic women not only expect you to be their boyfriend, they expect you to supplant the bank and be their business manager. They expect you to be everything, and thus, they expect you to be accountable for their failures.

He could now be dealing with debts that she incurred, and she will only keep him around long enough for those debts to be paid off as she plans an escape route, because he clearly isn’t as smart and all-powerful as I once thought as she thinks. Your margin for error is minuscule when you date a woman like this, and the revenge that sits on the other end of failure is vile and oppressive in its energy.

But, I want to emphasize that every man has the decision to make about what they do in this situation. Many men forfeit themselves over to women in relationships like this and play the scarcity card, even if you possess as much social and economic capital as Gentile does. This prevents you from cutting a woman like this off when you have the chance, because your survivalistic mind is playing the card against the scarcity card, arguing that you have to go through with this terrible decision because you don’t have any other options for women and you have to keep her happy enough to spread her legs and then produce offspring – appealing survivalistically. Realize that this is a societal lie and this fear should not exist in men anymore because of the sheer number of human beings on the planet for one but also because there isn’t a societal need and value in producing offspring that there once was. Thus, you should not feel this way and should feel far less, almost completely devoid of the feeling that you owe a woman something.

For all we know he passed a test

Men, maybe this was just a test of his level of commitment and he failed, indicating that he actually passed the test at hand. Many men don’t recognize the difference, although in another article from the Telegraph, it indicates that Gentile was considering marrying this woman. If that is the case, she certainly sensed this level of commitment on the horizon as women are not unaware of sensing these things.

Thus, she wanted to test the level of commitment that he was willing to put forth. And good thing that he failed, because if she is asking for $50K now in addition to trips to the Bahamas, iPhones, bags and so forth, then things will never be enough.

I know I’m talking about narcissistic women a lot, but that is because the majority of such women that we are talking about in MGTOW and would present themselves in these situations are BPD narcissists. Enough is not just never enough long term.

Enough is never enough minute to minute. Regardless of what you did last hour, if she asks you for this investment the next hour after helping her pay for her last tuition bill in beauty school or to get her marketing degree, then you’re not the ultimate masochistic boyfriend that she expects you to be.

These women will expect you to be praying mantises for them, and men, there is no reason that you have to be. There is nothing that you will gain from being that. Women exemplified in these stories don’t understand the value of a man’s dollar and that a man will save long term to help the duo long term, whereas I’ve dated and been with women that expect life to be lived on a day-to-day basis.

Nobody ever succeeds in life and can be agile by living day-to-day. There is nobody that strives for that. But when you’re partying, asking for large investments and not cultivating a personality and attitude of character and resilience, as this chick Kristina wasn’t, then you are not going to understand the reasons that he went red pill on her.

Because men, this is so important, never let a woman get in the way of your career. Because fo this preservation of his money, sure it took four hours to get his car out of the pool, but he could have saved around $1 million before that relationship would be all said and done, and likely upwards of ten times that.

His career and pursuits could have been derailed, and there is no need to make any sacrifices.

The Anger in Women’s Hearts is Fueled by Something Darker

Revenge is fueled by hurt that someone can’t let go, or deems that they can’t let go and are justified in seeking. Women are becoming more vengeful today because of the pain and hurt that they are creating subconsciously and have been created in them by a lack of internal value and positive parental influence. Women like this are entitled because of the mainstream media’s emphasis on women as individual snowflakes that can never be replicated, poisoning the minds and hearts of women and giving them false justice that when things like this occur and a man says no, that the man doesn’t understand reality – as in her mind, reality would be that as a goddess, yes should always be said to her.

To her, that man is an ungrateful and narcissistic prick himself as she has been self-aggrandized for so long.

This unleashes an anger that sweeps in like a dark cloud. That dark cloud is the cloud that I would describe my ex. When I had sex with her it was like a level of darkness and debauchery would creep into my heart and destroy my ability to protect myself and value myself and say no.

There is a new bitterness in women and they’re wielding a vengeful sword. Men, don’t be surprised if they try to lose you your job and obviously suck you of financial resources.

That is common and that is happening. Please protect yourself. Because as we get more and more removed from our natural states of fulfillment and satisfaction as people, which is happening to entitled feminism, we see women act out like this, getting revenge tattoos and driving Mercedes Benz’s into pools.


So men, I make this video to help serve as a cathartic outlet for many of you guys that have struggled in the past with women like this. I’m sure we all have horror stories to tell and I hope that you are willing to share your revenge story with me as I would love to get a consortium of men together that have been struggling and have struggled with relationships that are toxic and have involved a BPD woman.

Men need to support and talk to each other about these things, as otherwise women will dominate the channels being used to discuss things and infiltrate the minds of young men, convincing them to kowtow.

Please comment below, and if you haven’t, please reach out to me through email. That is easily the most satisfying element of making these videos, and I would love to hear directly from you. I always get back to you guys and I’m open to chat and discuss anything and future content at, or on Twitter at @sunrisehoodie.

As always brothers, as I’m about to pass out from sleepiness, hoodies are up. Hoodie is out.

MGTOW – Queen Jezebel | The Jezebel Spirit and Borderline Personality Disorder

Let’s begin with this quote from 2 Kings 9:22 “How can there be peace,” Jehu replied, “as long as all the idolatry and witchcraft of your mother abound.”

The name Jezebel means to much surprise, “chaste, free from carnal connection.” Who would have thought that this name that the woman bore would actually be the antithesis of the type of woman that Jezebel was in the Bible.

Before I get going, I want you guys to recognize first what are Jezebel’s goals. Her goals are to defile you inwardly, outwardly and in every way possible in order to take you from the goal you have set forth and any goodness of your heart that is a threat to their evil and to the advancement of their spirit.

All they want to do is to find another host for their evil spirit to rest inside of a take up residence in. They are jealous of your joy, and they want to strip you of your joy. They think your peace is immature and they want to dash your peace.

Welcome back MGTOW men. It’s a Sunday, and arguably it’s my favorite day to speak on MGTOW matters as we connect MGTOW, female nature and who men are called to be with stories from the Bible.

I’ve gotten so many suggestions and referrals to discuss today’s topic, Jezebel. Who is Jezebel? What does it mean when that word is used to refer to a woman, and how can we see the Jezebel in today’s world? And what does it mean for a MGTOW man.

For those of you who don’t know who Jezebel was, Jezebel was a princess I believe of a Phoenician King, Ethbaal, who in his name was a worshipper of Baal, a common pagan deity during the Old Testament. She in her upbringing was taught to regard the God of the Israelites as a “god of the land”, not the god of Baal as well.

It’s interesting and important to consider that the same biological offspring that generated Hannibal, who was a mighty conqueror, ruthless and unforgiving in his own right, also produced Jezebel. She too was just as destructive, but women go about trails of destruction in a far different way, destroying all that is in their path through deceit, through malice, through a complete disconnection from empathy, from sexual perversion and adulterous behavior.

This woman was infected. Many people believe that she was demon possessed, and it is also important to recognize that the same Jezebel spirit that infected Jezebel to overthrow the Prophet Elijah, not necessarily Ahab, who was the King of Northern Israel at the time and also Jezebel’s wife, was the same spirit that overtook the women who ordered Herodias to kill John the Baptist. John the Baptist according to the Bible was filled with the prophetic, Elijah spirit.

This has a lot of implications for the Bible, but today I want to make sure that I emphasize who this woman is, why it’s important to understand the Jezebel spirit and the connections between this infected woman and the many infected women of today that are controlled by various things external of themselves.

I had a conversation with a MGTOW brother last weekend and off and on throughout this week about the Jezebel spirit and bi-personality disorder. The connections are definitely there, and the next time that you read about Jezebel in the Bible, please do so with a new lens – the lens of the BPD woman.

The references for Jezebel can be found in 1 Kings and 2 Kings. We will be focusing primarily on 1 Kings 16 where she is introduced, a few more later in the book and once again in 2 Kings 9 after.

Let’s give a quick reading of some of the important verses that will help influence our understanding of the passage. First, when Ahab becomes the King of Israel. This is from 1 Kings 16:29-34. Ahab took over as the new King of Israel and he went on to reign for 27 years. Ahab was no slouch and he conquered the second-most amount of land of any King in Israel besides none other than Solomon.

If that doesn’t tell you something about the power of women over a man that is not just good at business, maybe he’s a good athlete, these mofos conquered all kinds of land. They defeated armies, they waged war. They were masterminds in their own right, but what do Solomon and Ahab both have in common? They were felled by the power of a woman. Her word made them cower and she did things for them, not he for her.

Ahab was not all that he could be though, and he wasn’t all he could be because of his wife, Jezebel. In 1 Kings 16:30 it states, Ahab did more evil in the eyes of the LORD than any of those before him. And you know why, because of his wife. “He not only considered trivial to commit the sins of Jeroboam son of Nebat, but he also married Jezebel daughter of Ethbaal king of the Sidonians, and began to serve Baal and worship him.

Because of a lack of self-confidence

Ahab was now King of Israel and nothing else mattered because he had his wife. He had Jezebel. He likely had this very sexy, exotic woman that possessed power, and I can speak for myself – nothing is more sexy to a man that is not strong in himself than a woman that is strong in herself. The fact that Ahab found Jezebel alluring is a reflection of who Ahab was and the struggles that he was facing to claim his own self-confidence.

When we as men are weak in ourselves we look outside of ourselves to find our confidence and that is the root of the decision to wed a woman like this. Ahab was like David, completely throwing all of his power, all of his control, his position as a King, out of the window completely, just to fill that void.

A Jezebel Spirit needs an Ahab

What is at play here is that a Jezebel spirit feeds for and roams the earth looking for an Ahab spirit. Men, how often is there that connection between a BPD girl and a nice guy. BPD girls almost always end up with the nice guy because of one thing: it creates a semblance of balance in their eyes. It’s like craving a nutrient that you’re lacking, except this time just eating it (i.e. getting in the relationship) doesn’t satisfy that craving and revitalize you. It kills you.

That’s what we see with Jezebel and Ahab. Jezebel spirit can only operate when there is an Ahab spirit nearby to feed on, and they look for them. You don’t see the Jezebel spirit feeding on the mean guy, just the mr. nice guy. Because she can control him.

She can make him do whatever she wants him to do because she has the sexual prowess and self-confidence that he wished he had. BPD women have often been abandoned in their past as well. I don’t know the backstory, but for a Phoenician woman to be marrying a Northern Israelite is a very strange thing off the bat to me. I can’t really understand why this happened of what drew Jezebel away from her land, but it could have been potential rejection.

A woman that possesses the Jezebel spirit will try to control everything around them because of a fear of being rejected. The Catch 22 for these types of people and type of women, is that this controlling behavior drives people away and eventually leads to their downfall, as it quite literally did for Jezebel. This type of woman, and I’m sure that you have dated them, as I have too, will use guilt to control you and your mind. They will utilize guilt to keep you around and to keep you in their grasp.

Understanding that you are more of an empath than they are, they will leech on to you and see that you are more vulnerable and more willing to go along with what they say.

If you have dated a control freak, this woman was potentially a BPD or at least had elements of one. This woman is so much more common today than once was the case because of the aggrandizing of the woman’s ego and her value in society through the more perverse sexualization of woman. This allows her to embrace her power more and to believe that she has more power than she should have. Men, totally brought to their knees through her beauty are left to fall prey like myself and Ahab.

This is always done at the expense of other people

Your relationships as a man are not in a vacuum like you might think. We think that when we are dating a Jezebel or have just gotten married to a Jezebel, that we can control the impact that they have on the lives of the loved ones that I have around me and the lives of people in my work place. This doesn’t happen. You also can’t see the impact that they’re having. We are blind to this fact and blind to any realization of what that impact is.

Jezebel was killing all of the prophets of Israel. Ahab wasn’t her goal or her focus. Ahab was a hypergamous tool. Ahab was a vessel for this type of spirit and this type of woman just to gain access to kill what she wanted to kill as a person possessed. She was killing and was killing them to create chaos and to remove cleanliness of heart and spirit from around her, just as was done with the woman that demanded John the Baptists’ head. You have the power as a man to keep those around you safe, protected and at peace, but if you bring in an infection or a virus in the form of a girlfriend or wife that is a Jezebel, this woman will not only destroy you but destroy that which is around you.

You too may become a demon my friends. I know that I became a demon and that I became a new person. I became the host of the spirit that my first ex was carrying. She brought into our relationship a background of abuse and abandonment. I was supposed to be the Ahab spirit for her, the first one that she could truly control.

Slowly, she took me away from my faith and from going to church. I would go to church every weekend in a nearby town to my college. I would make the trip, get up early in the morning, even though I didn’t have a car, and make it there. It was something I committed to doing.

But when I started dating her, she didn’t want me to go to church. In fact, going to church would probably have led to our breakup, which would have been a blessing at the time. She found it unattractive, and I stopped going. I would start sleeping in with her on the weekends and on Sundays after late nights of partying.

She was my Jezebel. Laiden in makeup, she was an exotic looking girl. She had no empathy. She was narcissistic. She had no remorse. I was Ahab. I became an enemy to my own kind. To the very people that would want to help me. The people I met at church, my parents, my teammates.

Just as it happened to me, it happened to Ahab. Elijah, the prophet sent to save Israel. The prophet that drove off 450 prophets of Baal. Came to Ahab in 1 Kings 21: 20-21. “I have found you…because you have sold yourself to do evil in the eyes of the Lord. I am going to bring disaster on you. I will wipe out your descendants and cut off from Ahab every last male in Israel.”

Never would have this fraction happen if Jezebel hadn’t woven herself in and spread her spirit through Ahab.

They have no mercy and have no empathy. They are so cold

This is such a petty story between Ahab and Jezebel, but it involves another example of how Jezebel has no remorse, no empathy and is essentially a murderer. I have dated two women who both had BPD tendencies and were both completely devoid of any empathy. Because they believed that they had been wronged so many times, they felt justified in wronging others, regardless if it meant murder. In my case, it wasn’t murder but rather it was being selfish with other people’s time, not having any regard for people’s health and not being able to relate to me during times of stress or when I wanted a job for example or wanted to do well at a baseball game, or maybe did terrible in both areas.

So, Ahab asked a man, Naboth, for his vineyard. Naboth would not sell Ahab the vineyard, and just the fact that Ahab couldn’t get the vineyard made Ahab depressed. Now what the heck kind of pathetic behavior is that? He has the second-most land of any king in Israel but he won’t get a vineyard, so he doesn’t eat, acts sullen and is depressed.

So what does Jezebel do? She writes a letter to the elders of the city that Naboth lived in an wrote to them to frame Naboth as a man that “has cursed God and the king”. This letter was sent and you know what resulted from it?

They stoned Nabath to death. From 1 Kings 21: 15, it states that “as soon as Jezebel heard that Naboth had been stoned to death, she said to Ahab, “Get up and take possession of the vineyard of Naboth the Jezreelite that he refused to sell you. He is no longer alive, but dead.”

Now the vineyard was Ahab, but through this he was on step further into the clutches of Jezebel and her engulfing, dark, spirit.

Men, a letter from a woman was able to do this. Ahab, the King of Israel could have said whatever he wanted. He could have sent 100 men to kill Naboth in cold blood, but he didn’t. Instead, he sulked but his wife, his crazy wife went and used her words, the seductress’ most powerful asset, and got what Ahab couldn’t assert himself and get even as king.

This women is a cunning as Satan. She can woooh the minds and hearts of men, even the greatest men, and even if it means death and killing, she will go about it, because the spirit of Jezebel has enraptured her mind. There is a sense of entitlement and oneness in the person that is not a healthy oneness. It’s a oneness that essentially means that nobody outside of her exists.

A narcissist can only see their reflection in the pool of the water. The narcissist sees nothing outside and past their reflection but the face before them. The world ends at the borderline of his or her face. That’s Jezebel. The death of another means nothing. The death of you as her husband only matters if there is more that she wants to suck out of you and hasn’t done so yet.

The red pill response to a Jezebel – Jehu, the man sent to destroy the house of Ahab

A Jezebel can destroy entire nations as she was well on her way to in Israel. What is needed is a red pill response. What is this red pill response? Because I’m not here men to bring up a message and not offer what can be done to prevent a woman like this from overtaking you or pillaging all that you have known.

As I began this story, we will end today’s MGTOW Sunday Sermon with the words from Jehu, who was once a commander within Ahab’s army but seeing the debauchery and destructiveness of Ahab’s line and family, sent himself to redeem Israel by destroying.

Often the healer brings a sword in cutting of a Jezebel from your life or maybe you’re the one cutting off the Jezebel from another person’s life. This was Jehu. Jehu killed not only the King of Israel after Ahab’s death, Joram, but also Judah, who was Ahaziah. Straight with an arrow between the shoulders of Joram for the first kill and eventually killing Ahaziah in pursuit towards a nearby city.

His fury continued all the way to shut up Jezebel and put an end to all of the misery that was stemming from Jezebel. Jehu hunted down Jezebel in Jezreel where it says that she put on eye makeup and arranged herself to look good, looking to entice Jehu. This man, Jehu, had just murdered two kings mind you and she still had the audacity to try and lure him in with her sexual appeal.

This is one of my favorite passages in the entire Bible:

“He looked up at the window and called out, “Who is on my side? Who?” Two or three eunuchs looked down at him. “Throw her down!” Jehu said. So they threw her down, and some of her blood spattered on the wall and the horses as they trampled her underfoot.

Jehu then went into her house or somewhere and ate and drank. He then ordered that they “take care of that cursed woman and bury her for she was a king’s daughter.” They went out bury her and they found nothing except her skull, her feet and her hands.

She would then be eaten by dogs and all of her remains would be defecated by the dogs that ate her. She literally became fecal matter.


And men, that’s all that this woman is. She is fecal matter. She will leave no legacy for herself and she will leave no legacy for you either. There will be nothing left of you, and there will be nothing left of her if you engage with this woman.

Also men, the number of women that are BPD is growing. There are over 10 million known cases and the scary thing about BPD women is that many of them are highly sexual. They are promiscuous, really hot often, cunning in their words and will quiet the reasoning in your mind with their beauty.

There is a reason that even those that don’t know the backstory of Jezebel know who of the term “Jezebel”. There is a reason for this, just like we know of Delilah and Eve in mainstream society, outside of a religious context. Once again, an example of how these Sunday Sermons, regardless if you’re at all interested in what the Bible has to say, it does have much to say about MGTOW, human nature and female nature.

Women are easily influenced spiritually. Why do you think that the Bible warns against female leaders. The sensitivity and proneness to follow as a female are far greater than that of a male. She can be influenced, but once she is influenced, the power she possesses with this demon inside of her, this energy, can overwhelm men, even the most powerful kings, and it can crush Kingdoms, as it did with Israel.

You are not a King men. You are not an entire kingdom. Do you think you can hold up to the cunningness of this serpent filled woman that roams all across Western society today? I say no, because the average is almost becoming the Jezebel today. Women in today’s society mirror Jezebel more and more, when a Jezebel would be a rare women in Bible times.

What does this say? As always, I end my Sunday Sermons with the line, there is nothing new under the sun. Because this is true. There truly is nothing new under the sun. Nothing new at all, only things from past that can remind us and guide us to a better, safer and more free future as MGTOW men.

So, while I didn’t talk a whole lot directly about MGTOW today, I believe that most of it is implied. To further this conversation, please bring up things that I didn’t bring up about Ahab and Jezebel. And also, please share your stories of interacting with that Jezebel spirit in your life and what that was like.

As always brothers, soak up today. Soak up the freedom you have this Sunday and I hope that this video was received well. Let me know what topic you’d like for me to touch on for next Sunday’s Sermon.

Men, pop that hoodie up. Get your prophet hoodie on, don’t put Jezebel’s seductress hoodie on – instead, toss some Jezebel’s off the balcony today.

Hoodies up, hoodie is out.

MGTOW – The Sexual Résume Vol. 1 | She’ll Be Impossible to Please

A sexual background check is essential men, and this is something that I absolutely got burnt to a crisp with during my most recent relationship. Today’s edition of MGTOW content is about how you can’t look the other way when it comes to a woman’s sexual resume. A woman that has had a long list of sexual partners in the past will exhibit a number of qualities that will drive you to a state of insanity. She will:

1) Be impossible to please



2) She will be filled with double, triple, quadruple-mindedness…insert whatever number of sexual partners she has had here.



3) Why do you think she will change with you? We always think as men that we will be the one to right the ship.



4) Have her pair-bonding abilities absolutely destroyed.



5) Where is her heart? Does She have one? She does but she has no idea where it is.



Welcome back MGTOW men. You see that I’ve listed five different things, that’s because I will be looking at five different reasons why a long list, a giant resume when it comes to past sexual partners is one of the only times that you want someone’s resume to be short. Today’s video is just edition number one, because this is such an important issue in today’s world.

Today’s topic is  fueled by a story that I thought back on the other day and a few emails from men and a few comments from men that brought up my video regarding the carrying of sexual energy and DNA from a previous sexual partner. The main inspiration was a viewer and emailer named David that talked about the difference between our culture today that honors having a higher number of sexual partners because it praises one’s ability to get those sexual experiences and accrue notches on the bed post next to your head…against the culture of yesteryear, which is a lot sooner than you think.

We definitely don’t need to go back in time that far, as this applies to life during the 50s and 60s even, when it would be likely for a man to marry a woman while she was in high school. In fact, this woman may not even complete a high school before she gets whisked away in this marriage, and it was far rarer for her to be a virgin. In fact, it would be shameful is she wasn’t.

We saw things change slowly in the late 50s and as women like Marilyn Monroe began to take up the main stream and women began to emulate them and want the James Dean type soul around them.

Slowly, having more and more sexual partners was praised. Soon, Janet Jackson, Madonna, now Lady Gaga, Nicky Minaj and Cardi B have flooded the airwaves with language that praises sexual conquests on the part of women, much like the voices of male rapper and the like.

Now, we have women that are prolonging marriage, and combine sexual promiscuity and feminism and next thing you know you have an irascible women that you can’t live with.

What I’m getting at today is:

It’s a real thing, and something that certainly has an impact on a relationship.

In fact, it has everything to do with a relationship.

To begin, I will touch on my last girlfriend, and how I regret falling for this relationship when the signs were blaring right in front of me, blaring out loudly like a fire alarm set off in a college dorm, echoing through the cement walls, attempting to make you deaf.

She would make lists of how many people she at least kissed or made out with I believe was the standard, and one time that list was misconstrued by her brother as being a list for all of the people that she intended on bringing to her future wedding. Scary. It’s as if it’s a dagger into my intestines thinking back on that right now. Things only lasted another month and a half, but it should have been ever shorter than that.

I would go into more detail about this encounter, but out of respect for some semblance of privacy, I won’t go any further. My experience with this woman was one of that she was hurting, yes because of traumas in her life, but because of these sexual encounters. She viewed these things as good. What the heck in life do you list out that are bad? Nothing, nobody lists bad things unless it’s ESPN making a graphic regarding a list of all the injuries that the starting running back has incurred throughout his career.

For her, this list was viewed as a positive, but this list, and even though my list of sexual partners is only at two, and list of girls that I’ve made out with at least is only at three, this list provided me with the red pills I’ve needed, but it has done nothing more than take from me in other regards.

This list would eat away at her. I know it. It ripped from her the ability to be empathic. It destroyed her self-worth. It has kept her spiraling. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know what to say. There was nothing that I could do to help her. It was always her running, running from her own demons, and each sexual partner was in other words another 40 of Jack that was downed to help numb the pain.

The next bit of background that fueled today’s video was the email from David in which he explains:

Yes, I think any sex outside of marriage is harmful.  It damages the man’s integrity and respect and it damages the woman’s reputation and sexual market place value.  I haven’t found it yet, but I heard of a book mentioned on a Christian radio station that is by psychologists that say “sex rewires the brain”.   They said if affects women much more than men.  It rewires her brain to those conditions of sexual intimacy.  If she has sex for the first time with a stranger she met at a bar, then for the rest of her life she will tend to seek out sex with men she barely knows.  If she has sex with her husband for the first time on their wedding night she will tend to be faithful to him and love him her whole life.  And be satisfied with marital sex.  Whereas women with even two lovers before their husband have a lot of marital dissatisfaction.  The ancient world recognized this.  They only wanted to marry a virgin.  A single woman who is not a virgin was considered damaged goods.

This is precisely true, and it was viewed that a woman’s moral value and level of trustworthiness plummeted. Also, because of birth control, which besides onanism or the pull out method, is very new, the fact that a woman has had many sexual partners in the past means that her egg count has been diminished and that he ability to carry and also give birth to a child has dramatically decreased. It has this biological side effect as well that we don’t always consciously recognize, but I wanted to point that out to accompany the nurture, or social reasoning behind why this is the case.

With that background, as to why this sexual background check is more than important when looking at a woman. And I want you to realize that men are certainly not immune to this themselves if they’ve had a very long list of sexual partners in the past.

The effects of this extend far past dating and marriage. They impact friendships and work relationships as well, because you experience on the bed is not entirely separate from the experiences that you have at work, at the gym, in school and so forth. It impacts everything.

So his the note that is on the docket for volume one of this series:

1) She Will Be Impossible to Please

Men, this is the first reason that I list as to why a woman’s sexual background is an essential factor consider, but it likely the least important reason to consider, because pleasing a woman and pleasing your wife is the last thing that should be on one’s mind when being married. Pleasing someone is not a goal, it’s a product of living out your life and living it out in mind of how you should, and living one out of integrity. It’s never the goal.

We call these people “people-pleasers” and when have you ever used the term “people-pleaser” in a positive way. You haven’t. It doesn’t happen that way. It’s not a thing.

But, the more that she is praised, the more sexual partners that she has, the more she believes that she is deserving of being pleased. The more her ego is fed and the more men that are willing to do whatever it takes to get in her pants, it makes her feel entitled. And you know what that leads to, you now end up being the latest subject. You are her latest subject and latest project to extrapolate as much joy and as many compliments from.

When we bring it to sex and that side of a relationship, a woman is not made for this type of living. There is a reason that that is was once treated with shaming, ex-communication from communities and even stoning. Because it was viewed as deplorable. Because we don’t have this anymore, women feel that it is safe and justified to take this path. As do men.

All this to say is, her expectations are now too high. And maybe you’ve gotten lucky enough to score a ten. But, they also say never trust a big butt and a smile for a reason. She can’t be trusted, but she is that much more to be dissatisfied. The women can always have the power if she has the sexual power within her. Thus, she can get even the man that is out of her league, far more often than that guy that is trying to out-punt his coverage and get that which is out of his league.

She will have had some of the hottest guys, some of the best guys in bed that she could ask for, and you will not be able to please her. It’s like a guy that grew up in Tennessee, North Carolina or Kansas City and has been surrounded by good BBQ all his life. He moves to Oregon and tries to get some BBQ. He’s gunna cheat on Oregon. I don’t care how good the hipster BBQ restaurant is in Portland, it’s not going to be the same as the BBQ exes. I don’t care how good the sex is with you, there is always that one amazingly hot sexual encounter that she had with her ex during that one weekend away that you will never live up to.

Men, you’re not going to win. The more sexual partners a woman has had, the more you have to compete with. Now the MLB is divided into six divisions. It’s easier to make the playoffs. You know what it used to be? Only two teams made it to the playoffs. It was nearly impossible. You had everyone to compete with, and even if you won 100 games, you still might not make the playoffs, or what was then the World Series.

When she has had a number of sexual partners you’re going to get compared to her in other areas of life as well. We as humans have an ability to remember extremes of someone’s identity because those are the most salient in our memory, and as you know is the case with the neuroplasticity of our brains, we remember what is valuable, and we forget what can be discarded. Thus, women and men alike will remember what they deem as shockingly good or shockingly bad from past relationships. The more sexual partners she has had, the more you are compared to the other areas of life that these men exceeded in. He may have been a deadbeat druggy, but he may have taught her about cars and how to change her oil. He may have taught her how to cook a certain food. He may have taught her some tricks on the computer and some basic coding. I have no idea, but a laundry list of sexual partners doesn’t just mean being compared at that level.

I’m just going to leave you with this. So, in June, there was an article published by the BBC that has a number of implications on these five reasons as to why you want to avoid a woman with a number of sexual partners. They note how many women are getting hymenoplasty surgeries in order to physically cover up the fact that they are not virgins. The same article notes how women are socially being pressured into this and they deem it unfair that women are being pressured into being virgins.

The article notes that women are not doing things as they traditionally have, which is once again, the way to do things. But it’s not recognized as this, it’s recognized as liberation – working and finally marrying at age 30. Who’s fault is this? It’s framed as if it’s the man’s fault, but it is something that women have fought for. Now, white knight men are supporting it and are paying for these hymenoplasty surgeries. These surgeries may be forced upon them because of some superficial demand that the man has, but I highly doubt it.

Virginity is still viewed as the holy grail in women around the world and in many countries. And whole societies all across the world just don’t arbitrarily decide that something has societal value and have it transcend centuries. There must be a reason for it, yet we sell ourselves lies once again claim a man’s expectation and desire to have a virgin wife as a double-standard and a lie. Sure, men, don’t be man whores either, but don’t expect men to not want something that means loyalty, commitment and fertility.

That’s you with a chick that has been around though men. Without a chance and with standards you can’t live with, you can’t raise a family with.

No, you don’t have a sexual freak on your hand that all of your friends should be jealous of. You have a handful of full condoms and a bed full of problems that you have to sleep next to.

The next four reasons are surely coming up men. You best be ready for them, and you know who this list could be used for? Jezebel. Maybe that’s a little foreshadowing for this week’s Sunday Sermon. Who knows. I don’t know. Maybe you need to check that out and see. But, enjoy this Saturday. I’ve got a full day ahead of me. Working till 8 or 9 p.m. tonight. But I don’t gotta go entertain my girl afterwards with a fruitless trip to the bar, so it’s all good men.

Hoodies are up instead. Hoodie is out. Yah!

MGTOW History – “I Don’t Have Time for a Wife and a Plane” | Wright Brothers

“I don’t have time for a wife and an airplane.” – Wilbur Wright

Welcome back MGTOW men. I’m working on 0.00 hours of sleep over the past day right now, but that’s okay because you know what I get to do right now, I get to talk to you guys about another MGTOW topic, and nothing fires me more up than fusing two of my favorite things: MGTOW and history.

And based on a request in my “Was Jesus a MGTOW?” video, today we will be looking at the Wright Brothers and what we can glean from the original inventors of the airplane as two men that were never married.

Would they have been able to make these advancements? Probably not. Would they have been able to spend the time, take the risks and put their finances and reputation on the line if they had a family and a wife to take care of?

Most likely no. And that’s how they etched their names into history, earning their testing location Kitty Hawk, N.C. the birthplace of the airplane and also having universities founded after them, as we see with Wright State in Dayton, Ohio. They accomplished much and if you look at many inventors and those that create new things, we see a common theme:

They didn’t have wives. They didn’t have families.

For those of you who don’t know the Wright Brothers, which is probably not very many of you, you have to realize just the breadth of knowledge and prowess these men possessed. According to my reliable sources at Wikipedia, the Wright brothers not only flew the world’s first successful airplane, while also working as a printer, publisher, bicycle retailer, manufacturer, pilot trainer and editor.

When a man’s heart is not divided, neither is his mind. When a man’s mind is not divided, his energy is not either. When a man can devote all his energy to what is at hand, a man can do great things. That’s the whole purpose behind meditation and training one’s mind to be efficient.

If a man can remove the distraction of pursuing things that do not add to his lifelong goal, then he can do great things. So much that I can talk about in regards to Orville and Wilbur Wright, but let’s just say that they were right in not marrying by taking on endeavor to construct an airplane.

1) Success Demands Singleness of Purpose

One thing that I’m fascinated by and would love to write a book on or one long article on one day is success. I am absolutely enthralled by success. What makes a man successful? What are the variables?

One of the essentials is singleness of purpose. Gary Keller in his book, “The One Thing”, states that “success demands singleness of purpose.”

This has been said in so many ways. Paul even in 1 Corinthians said “the married man is concerned about the affairs of the world, how he can please his wife, and his interests are divided.”

Paul isn’t warning men because this is inherently wrong, but because it detracts from a man’s ability to serve and reach his full potential for the output that he can create for the greater good.

A man cannot serve two masters.

This can apply to simple tasks that we do on a daily basis that we don’t put our full effort into and instead produce meager consequences. We end up doing a lot of things average, but nothing well. And if you’re trying to sell a product, make a business or just in general, monetize anything, you can’t do it moderately well. It has to be better than any other option, and that demands singleness of purpose.

Average is common, expertise is monetization.

This is exactly what Wilbur Wright said when he stated that he “didn’t have time for both a wife and an airplane.” Tesla didn’t have time for a wife and his million inventions either. As much as it would have stymied him, who died alone in a hotel, but had left an impact that would keep others company for centuries through his inventions and thoughts – long after his passing.

Men, I believe that there is an undercurrent within MGTOW that is fascinated with that it takes to be different, but only with the intent to be great. Whatever great is in your mind, MGTOW men are willing to sacrifice the beaten path for their fascination with greatness.

2) Orville too felt betrayed

At the age of 88, Orville’s dad, Milton, passed away. This was in 1917. Nine years later, so plenty of time, Orville’s mother remarried a high school classmate of hers. Feeling betrayed and feeling as if his father had been betrayed, Orville refused to attend the marriage and did’t speak to her just before she passed away from pneumonia in 1929.

Some may perceive this to be too harsh of a reaction on Orville’s part, although at this point he was the only one left. Orville was left alone, having lost his father, brother and now mother to another man.

But, this is evidence that Orville didn’t have patience where he shouldn’t have applied patience to his life and to relationships around him. Behind the red pill is a refusal to continue to tolerate. The spirits that try to linger around and destroy us are ones that we let linger around. They are the Jezebel spirits. They fester when we continue to let them persist and we tolerate.

The red pill doesn’t tolerate, because red pill thought understands how fleeting we are and how fleeting the element of time it.

The testament of a strong MGTOW man is one that stands up for himself and his beliefs, regardless of how trivial the belief is perceived, because it is evidence of his self-worth and it is based in the belief that I should not fear the outcome of the conversation or confrontation because I am confident that I will be the same no matter what. That’s the difference especially between a blue pill boyfriend that should have broken up with his girl as a result of a series of red flags, and the red piller that cut off his cognitive dissonance for the Morpheus reality.

3) This requires risk – my theme, make situations of risk without the consequence for your own life and the lives of others

So, Orville and Wilbur traveled around the world and for their time in the late 19th century and early 20th century. They didn’t take a conventional path in life and didn’t pursue the businesses of his parents and dwell in cycling design any longer than he needed to in order to elevate himself.

No worthwhile success and notable success comes free of some sort of risk. And you know what prevents you from taking risk, the same thing that kept our MGTOW brother’s best friend that I mentioned a video ago. He was paralyzed by fear, and fear only arises from loss. Risk isn’t risk if there isn’t loss, This is what Wilbur’s father wrote of him in his diary after his son died: the epitome of a MGTOW man.

“A short life, full of consequences. An unfailing intellect, imperturbable temper, great self-reliance and as great modesty, seeing the right clearly, pursuing it steadfastly, he lived and died.”

Full of consequences. A man that incurs many consequences often is a man that incurs much success and much gain.

This next question then comes into play. Men, I know that MGTOW and entrepreneurship are almost synonymous these days in the age of YouTube especially. They are not separate, and they are enmeshed because they are both rooted in independence. But at what cost?

One of the most costly things is freedom. William Wallace lost his life. It is ultimately what we are fighting for everyday, whether or not we recognize it.

Thus, what are you willing to sacrifice for your innovation? What are you willing to give up? Are you willing to put in your 10,000 hours or more? And will a woman get in the way? Because even if you aren’t married to this woman, dating a woman can divide your mind.

Speaking on my personal life, while I began to work harder towards my career, joining the school newspaper, working for a few local papers, doing multiple internships, all within months of dating my ex-girlfriend. It does fuel you to provide, but remember that there is a huge difference between providing and succeeding. Setting a legacy for yourself.

There are seven billion people on the planet, and a reason that there are only a few of them that we can name on the top of our mind that are brilliant and that have added far beyond the capacity that is expected of them.

It’s because you’re going to have to set yourself aside. You’re going to set aside nights out with your friends, set aside television, set aside moments that aren’t used productively, and at the root of this is setting aside relationships.

4) Give your freedom time men

My advice men, give it time. Being a young adult, if you are one, and this segment right here is primarily for you and me, finances aren’t the best that they could be. You are likely living on a meager diet, don’t have any savings and are living from paycheck to paycheck. Maybe not, but things are tough.

You’re not established in your career, you’re still looking for your confidence and identity and you don’t have the social capital that you will possess in just 10 years from now. They say your toughest job is your first job as well, and thus you’ll be handling this stress as well.

This is the default time that men fall prey to a woman because they’re weak-minded and beaten down. This time of life, if you’re not busy, will lead you to the bars. It will lead to look for female companionship if you give your brain time to want that.

The Wright brothers were in dogged pursuit of what they wanted. They didn’t give their brain time to tarry on a woman. And the more time you spend away from women, thinking about women and looking for one, and the more time that you build your social capital, your value at work and so forth, the more you are able to handle this urge and the less appealing a woman becomes.

You reach a certain point on a curve, if I had time to make a graph I would, but once you reach a certain level of stability, being with a woman seems silly. It’s easy to fall prey to the thought that you need a woman as a young man, as it masks itself as a necessity next to your peanut butter and jelly diet as a young man.

So brothers, be as these brothers were. Understand that these guys had a bond that many of us will never experience or even understand. It was likely unlike the strength of any bond that we know, and far stronger and with much more of a pull than we are aware of that can be had between two people.

But just think, are there any relationships like this that lead to creation that aren’t between two men but rather two women? The only one is Bonnie and Clyde, and what did they do? Destruction. What did the Wright Brothers do? Creation.

Exactly my men. Everyday, create and everyday create the situations and keep the people in your life that will allow you to fly, even when those around you carry the doubts that you won’t be able to.

Enjoy your Freedom Friday brothers. Soak it in. Create something today? Once again, I want to do more of these historical MGTOWs. Please hit me up with your suggestions in the comments below for the next potential historical MGTOW content.

Hoodies are up brothers. It’s getting colder out there. Hoodie is out.