Welcome back MGTOW men. It’s the start of a new week, and for many men that is a bad thing. But, I’m sure that many of you are listening that are pursuing the entrepreneurial career, understanding that the end goal is to free oneself from the system and free oneself from the chains that big business forces you to be attached to.
Another thing will chain you down to being that slave is a woman, and most notably a woman that is volatile, and one of those women is a woman that has no friends. So men, I actually started my YouTube Channel with a series titled women and red flags. The purpose of the red flags series is not to help you pick up a chick, not help you understand women so that you can manipulate them – this is not a PUA guide, the purpose is so that you protect yourself from these women in your life as a whole – whether it’s someone that your friend is dating, whether it’s choosing a boss, dealing with co-workers, being there for support for a brother or cousin that is dating and looking to get married, and also as a cathartic release for you guys that have dealt with a woman that exhibits these red flags, with the red flag of focus being the woman that has no friends today.
And hey men, MGTOW is about going your own way. Not about me choosing that way, and maybe some of you guys will consider dating and marrying in the future. Me, that’s not a part of the my MGTOW path. But I’ve dated women that have either had friends that were not “good friends” so to speak or had friends that they continually cut off or had greater expectations from than what should be expected from a platonic relationship.
These are the things that we are going to look at today, and some of them are off-shoots of this idea of the girl with no girlfriends in her life. These things are:
- She’s a volatile person and cuts people off
- She often has no self-awareness and takes no agency
- All her time will now be spent on you
- The expectations for you and what you have to provide will mirror a full-time job
- At work, this means that she will stress over work too much and have no balance
- The Hybrid Girl: She only has guy friends
- This woman is often a slut
- This woman is often territorial
- Her ability to healthily pair-bond is crushed
- Her value of platonic relationships, outside of sexual ones, is non-existent.
She’s a Volatile Person and Cuts People Off
The woman that has no friends may not always be a completely bad thing. There are rare cases of women that are better off being alone, better off doing anime, better off reading and working on skills like this. This does happen, although there are reasons not to date this chick as well. But, most women are naturally social. The fact that she has no friends is contrary to what she is biologically built to do and has done for thousands of years.
Others, and many feminists would say the same thing about men. They would contend with the double-standard that “oh, all men are, are just man-whores!”. All they want to do is objectify us. Then, on the other end when we go MGTOW, they don’t see things as black and white and state that, “oh, MGTOW men are just suppressing what they’re biologically inclined to do!” There is a stark double-standard present in these two statements right here. The difference is that men avoiding relationships and dating is fueled by the pursuit of a positive.
The difference with a woman that doesn’t have platonic relationships and doesn’t commune with other women as they’re socially built to do and have done, being a gender that is far more based in the “hive-mind” mentality, is that they’re not foregoing something for a positive. They’re foregoing something for a negative, which is isolation and their own ego.
This is created because this woman is volatile and she cuts people off. Anything will offend this person, and this woman is fixated on how much you protect her and stand up to other people on your behalf. In order to quell this woman’s volatility and to keep her volatility away from you, you will have to put yourself in situations in which you put yourself in shame.
You cannot be an individual and you cannot stand up for another person’s opinions or beliefs when you’re in a relationship with this woman, because everything is perceived to be an attack on her. She always is in defense mode and perceives to be being attacked all the time.
I know this first hand. With one of my exes, she had a few friends before I ended up dating her that she described as really close, like extremely close…I won’t even get into the details. Like most girls do, they had a ton of photos together, shared a ton of memories, did this that and the other and would have traditions.
But, near the time that I started dating her, she started to cut these women off, for things that I don’t even know. They were like phantom issues that began to crop up, and ones that seemed really petty to me. In my eyes, based on description, it seemed like these women were conning her and that she had a real reason to act on vengeance, which she probably did not.
Immediately vendettas are created, they start to unfollow their friends on social media and that’s perceived to be the final straw. If they just cut their girlfriends off Instagram and remove all photos of them from that platform, that it will all be settled.
This girl also cuts off people in her family. While at times boundaries need to be kept and you have to remove negative people from your life, this woman will immediately jump to ghost herself from others in her life and feel justified in doing so.
This is all to say that, men, you never know with this woman. You will always have to be on call with her and you will always be having to prove your worth to her. You have to prove that you will be the hero, and this woman will create a hero complex in you.
You’re going to find yourself beginning to say things like, “I won’t let this happen…I won’t abandon her. I won’t treat her like that. She can trust me. She doesn’t have to worry about me turning my back on her.”
All of these things are things that you’re going to say, but realize that it is pointless, because this woman doesn’t operate on the same reality that you do. She operates in a different world, and she perceives what it means for you to stand up for her to be far different than what she expects. In fact, if you stand up for yourself and sacrifice your dignity, as I’ve done for her in front of my parents and made myself a simp in front of my parents for the sake of standing up for her, that’s the greatest expression of love. For her, that’s what love is, it’s not actually building both of you up, it’s you being a protector and you doing that because she is deficient in having a reliable person in her life.
She has been abandoned most likely in her past, and she is also a control freak. There are a lot of parallels between this woman and the woman that has a Jezebel spirit. They attempt to control everything and control other people in order to keep them in their court, but they actually end up producing everything that they feared would happen to them.
It’s just evidence once again guys that you can’t try to control everything and that the more that you try to, the more hectic your life becomes. This is what this woman runs into, and she’ll cut you off just as quickly and get the alimony or get this that and the other that she was hoping for.
This Woman Will Never Assess Blame to Herself – She has No Self-Awareness
One of the strongest signs of a person that remains a child is someone that has no self-awareness. It’s one thing to see things in front of you and to understand them, but to not understand how you impact them, what you did to either negatively affect it or positively influence, is a sign that you have no self-awareness and understanding of your shortcomings.
Do you want to date a woman that is still a child? Do you want to date a woman that will not be able to take blame for something that she does wrong? Because this woman doesn’t take blame and needs to dish it out on someone that should receive the blame. She will blame circumstances, she will blame things that really have no impact and she will never take agency.
This once again brings up a double-standard. She will take all the credit for things that go well, even if you’re the one that helped her get this job, helped her get in shape, helped her eat a better diet, helped her fix her car – whatever it is – she will take all the credit when it is convenient, but she will ascribe all the blame to the other person or the other circumstance when something goes poor or there is a conflict.
This comes into play with friendships and relationships. This woman doesn’t understand that there is a pattern at work when she can’t keep a friend. Doesn’t it seem concerning that you can’t keep a steady friend for longer than two months? They will argue that it is because they’re their own person and they don’t have time to put up with people that detract from their life and make them worse, or whatever other reasoning they say – which may actually be helpful to learn from in small doses – but they don’t understand that sometimes, you just have to get along with your friend even though they have different political beliefs, or God forbid date someone that you don’t like! Right, sometimes in life you make concessions because you’re willing to play the long game, you expect people to imperfect and you realize that having this platonic relationship with this person is better than not having it at all.
But, these women are often sprinters. They don’t understand the long term benefit of having positive people in their lives, women included. Instead, they burn bridges and ascribe blame. Ascribing blame is like a drug to them. They enjoy it, it gives them a jolt of dopamine as well, and being negative should never be a jolt of dopamine for someone, that expresses that this person is ill in some way. They are into put-downs, and actually, removing someone from their life in the way that they do is self-satisfying.
Avoid this woman because you can’t work with someone that doesn’t accept their faults. You can’t improve your life and you can’t work collectively when they never self-assess. Self-betterment comes after phases of self-reflection, and they have no idea how to do that.
She Will Have No Time But Time for You
This is a scary thing, but I’m sure that you’ve seen the couples out there – and that goes for both guys and girls, that are always together. They are inseparable, and they have no lives outside of the other person. They get up in the morning, get breakfast, go back, sleep, play video games, meet each other after class, after work, they watch all the same T.V. shows and they find their complete and utter security and self-worth in this other person, and never in themselves.
Subsequently, what happens is that you become all that is going in her life, and slowly you lose all connection with what you need to do, how to become a better man, the relationships with your friends, really succeeding, making a career for yourself, and generally keeping up with the flow of life as life doesn’t slow down for anyone.
You will all of a sudden find yourself in an absolute time vortex, with no time to study something or work on a skill. If you really want to learn a language or understand a new philosophy and read up on it, do you really think that you’ll be able to do that in the midst of this type of relationship? For one thing, you won’t have the mental fortitude to do so, and secondly you’re going to be labeled as neglectful for it as well.
Having girlfriends and relationships that are valuable in a woman’s life outside of your own is a sign that this woman is self-actualized in other areas beyond you, most of the time. At least, it’s a better sign that the alternative.
Many men that are merely mediocre in life are men that have sold their time, their free time and even their work time and sleep time out for a woman. If you want to be great, you have to have your time. I have a fascination with greatness. I’m obsessed with it, and the saying says that behind every good/great man is a good/great woman. This can be debated, but what can’t be debated is that no good/great man has a bad woman behind him, and one of the worst qualities is a woman that only has time for you and what you’re doing and never let’s you go out in the wilderness, unchained, and act out on your dreams.
This can also be manifested in a woman at work. Have you ever worked with a woman, or even a man for that matter, that has a non-existent social life of some sort and is only centered around work? If you have, you may have experienced this type of relationship and behavior that a man with a girlfriend that doesn’t have friends, would experience with a co-worker or boss that doesn’t have any friends.
When this happens, this person can become irascible, stressed out and unagreeable. All that matters is work, and when work for example is all that matters, any little problem at work that occurs becomes a crisis because whatever you claim to be the most important thing in your life, will often be expected to be perfect. It’s just the way it is. Have balance, and this woman in your work life, love life or in your family somehow will destroy balance.
The Hybrid Girl: But, She Has a Bunch of Guy Friends – Shouldn’t She Be Cool
Oh man, she has a ton of guy friends?! Like, I swear she gets along with all of my bros and all these other guys, and like…they’re totally platonic, there is no way that this girl has had sex with them, or at least most of them…yeah, maybe a few of them, no big deal, right? She is dating me now, so I don’t have to worry about that, I’m good.”
I almost guarantee you that this woman is fixated on power and has banged most of these guys. This is not a good sign. If she has an unending amount of guy friends, then most of the time this is based off of a sexual attraction. How many guys out there have the time of day for a woman that they’re not sexually interested in? Think about it.
It reminds me of a quote from a rap song music video at the end when the guy in the music video is freaking out when his girlfriend is upset with him for staying home and hanging out with his friends – he says something to the effect, “I’m hanging out with my friends bish, because my friends are F-ing fun!”
Socially, a man wants to hang out with his brothers, because he can often not just talk to them but also do things, go play pick-up basketball, go hunt, go to a game, whatever it is. With a woman you often can’t relate and what you do and have done as a man for thousands of years is merely have the woman for sex and for taking care of that offspring.
Some chicks are a good time and may get a little wild at the bar or wherever you are, but either there is liquor involved, rarely it’s you guys playing pick-up ultimate frisbee at the park – there is usually always sexual energy going on.
Men, be very wary of the girl that is like, yeah, all of my friends are guys. Watch out for that, that’s not a good sign for you as this woman is often very promiscuous, and of course she is gunna be a fan-favorite when she is showing what she has. Often times her ability to pair-bond has been crushed as well as her ability to form non-sexual platonic relationships loses its value and interest in her mind.
Men, I speak on all of these things for a reason because I’ve dated these types of women before that cut people off, that don’t have friends or have only male friends. I know what these things indicate and I know that it is indicative of a woman that doesn’t understand that you don’t get anywhere in life by mercilessly cutting people off. For them, it’s a hobby, for you it’s a problem because now she has all the time to vent to you, try to get you on her side and it’s foreshadowing of her inability to adapt to someone else, which may be you.
If you guys have dated this chick or no a girl that has no real friends, just artificial friends thanks to this artificial AI matrix that we are living in, please share your story and help save another man from falling prey to the woman that always has the C4 planted on that bridge, ready to detonate and not just burn that bridge, but burn that mofo down.
If you want to share even more in-depth, please share your stories with me at email@example.com or on Twitter at @sunrisehoodie. I want to get a directory going of men that have had these issues and have had similar stories and offer up this directory much like a phone book, and the only way to do this is to hear from you.
Thanks as always for listening men. If you’ve made it to the end, I’m amazed and so appreciative. Until we meet again, enjoy every minute of your Monday night or whenever you hear this, and surround yourself with people that build up, not tear down.
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