Welcome back MGTOW men. Infidelity amongst women in marriages has increased by 40 percent over the past 26 years. And you know what the increase is for men? 0 percent.
Hold that thought.
So, per suggestion from my man, Oslo MGTOW, a stellar what we call straight up, upper echelon commenter in the MGTOW community, who gets pub from the likes of TFM and a slew of other MGTOW content producers, we are doing things as the Sunrise Hoodie moniker would suggest, and we are uploading videos en lieu of the sun.
So, expect uploads to now come each morning. I want to be able to reach you guys before the day gets going. They say a breakfast is the most important meal of the day. You have the greatest need for calories in the morning because of the hours ahead of you, and no better than to open up that red pill capsule and sprinkle it throughout your oatmeal instead of that sugar or honey, or instead of that salt and pepper on your eggs.
Men, what’s your MGTOW breakfast? Is it Ben & Jerry’s as ImmortalMindz puts out there? Is it protein packed and you’re putting away a few eggs and a protein shake? Or are you going the all-popular intermittent fasting route these days?
I don’t know, hit me up. I’d like to get more content on my MGTOW health playlist, so hit me up!
Men, have you ever made breakfast for a chick and brought it to her in bed? Even if the breakfast sucks, in your mind that is a ticket to getting some morning action. Men, I’ve done it. And I cringe thinking about it. She tells me no eating in bed and it leads to crumbs, but she wants french toast and strawberries in bed? Men, I tought myself how to make good french toast only because of a chick. I don’t give two wooden nickels about french toast otherwise.
But, if you’re married to a western women today. A woman of the west that has been modernized and duped into believing the myth that marriage is the end all and be all. It’s the cure-all. It’s the magic bullet. It’s the silver bullet to the Warewolf. It’s the elixir. It’s perceived to be this way by many. Good luck.
You know who we have to blame, we have Hollywood, Shakespeare, prince charming and your friendly blue pill white knight at the corner bar downtown to blame for this.
Thus, the expectations for marriage are blown so far out of proportion and they are failing. The men, while I’m sure there are listless men that check out once they get married, and that’s their own fault, are left out to dry against this era of shame-free, no-fault divorces and the expectations for marriage to be hot, passion-filled sex every night.
Marriage is for three things:
- Raising those children in a safe and secure setting to give the best crop for the perpetuation of functioning and positive society
- For the dismissal of old ways and building new character and long term benefits.
Sex is just a by-product of it. If there was no sex, we would not have what we call marriage.
And while I didn’t want to get into another rant about marriage, sex and woman, and instead wanted to give an ode to Tom Petty, one of my favorite rock ‘n roll artists of all-time, I won’t be doing so because CNN had to blow up my notifications with this headline:
“More women than ever are cheating in their marriages — or are willing to admit that they are cheating? Why are they doing it?”
Also, this is somewhat of a video response to TrueGritProductions. Patrick, if you’re watching this, thanks for your analysis of this article. Check it out in the description below and I hope to also offer a card above so that you can check out the video.
So today, I want to bring up to those MGTOW men that aren’t married or those current MGTOW men that are considering marriage, what you are up against if you want to marry in the western world, including North America, Australia, South Africa and Europe. This is not to put down those that are married. It is not to say that we are better than you. This is to serve as an analysis of our social ills and distorted senses of entitlement that make going through a marriage almost impossible to accomplish.
Here are some of the most garish statements from the article, written by the far-left CNN and a female writer as well:
- “Another friend told me she was 100 percent faithful to her husband, except when she was out of town for work each month.”
- “She’d had so many emotional affairs and inappropriate email correspondences over the years that she had to buy a separate hard drive to store them all.”
- “Often, they loved their husbands, but felt in some fundamental way that their needs were not being met inside their marriage. Some even wondered if their husbands knew about their infidelity”
- “Felt like he was another child to clean up after.”
- “Valuing their marriages for the things it could offer and outsourcing the rest, accepting the distance between the idealization and the actual thing.”
1) Marital Outsourcing
That brings me into my first point about the failure of marriages today and once again, men are just an extension of the Ken Doll, and it’s called marital outsourcing, a wife filling the missing operations in a marriage through the use of another person in her life, whether this is a sexual fling or someone that is there for an emotional undercarriage throughout their days.
It’s either too hard to work at making the current employee, the husband, the man that will be the emotional support or take care of the relationships management and the “calendar” as the article says, thus why not just get that from another guy that I know is that way. He may be awful at sex and not that attractive, whereas my husband is, but he has these assets in an office in Delhi, thus I will utilize him to take care of this business need.
This is what the idea of martial outsourcing is. The article states that women are valuing their marriages for the things it could offer and outsourcing the rest, accepting the distance between the idealization and the actual thing.”
You know what this used to be called? Cheating.
You know what it used to lead to? Divorce.
You know what it leads to know, justification through articles like this.
Once again, this goes for men to, you can’t just make a light decision when you marry someone. If they are not there to help you with a certain task, they don’t do the best at discussing finances or managing money, they don’t have nice style, they don’t do well with kids, they’re not good in bed, then what the heck are you doing marrying them? And if you do marry them, you better accept that you can live with those flaws.
Because, at the end of the day, flaws are a part of who we are. But you know where we aren’t allowed to have flaws these days? Marriage. Once you hit marriage, you have to be perfect in the eyes of women, and because it is in the eyes of women, the men begin to believe that too. You know what happens, cold, disconnected marriages that end up in divorce, bouts of cheating and even suicide.
2) Married Life is Exceedingly Dull and Constraining
The author the article, Kim Brooks, writes for The Cut which is essentially a magazine for women that I suppose is more high brow that magazines for women that literally make them insane, such as Cosmopolitan. She is married though, and while I do believe that her feminist slant in this article is apparent, Patrick I don’t quite think she was as bad of a gynocratic dictator as we could have had.
But, she alludes to the quintessential complaint about marriages today, one that has led to no-fault divorces and the idea that it is justified. That’s entertainment. What the heck are we as adults, and no less adults in marriage? Do we just exist to entertain people? I’ve found in both of my relationships that I had to be the entertainer. I was always prompting and leading the text message conversations, even when I was distant and not texting them often. When we were spending time together, it had to be something new, and they’re always waiting expectantly for that excitement.
She makes this fanciful statement:
“At the time I married, marriage had felt like a panacea; it was a bond that would provide security, love, friendship, stability, and romance — the chance to have children and nice dishes, to be introduced as someone’s wife. It promised to expand my circle of family and improve my credit score, to tether me to something wholesome and give my life meaning.”
”They found married life incredibly dull and constraining.”
The issue behind so many marriages today, and my mom as a marriage counselor has corroborated with me today is, that marriages once again are not viewed as a sacrifice. Because, you know why, when you’re prepping for the engagement and going through that early honeymoon phase, even if you’ve been dating for five years and the guy hasn’t popped the question and you haven’t gotten married yet – because you know that there is the potential for something new on the horizon, i.e. marriage, that newness continues to instill excitement. That goes for anything in life. That’s why they say put a new activity or something exciting towards the end of your weekend or as the last thing that you do on the weekend, thus it will keep your weekend exciting, prolong it and prevent you from thinking about the beginning of the work week at 4 p.m. on Sunday.
Marriage is not that. Maybe these are people that are having a lot of sex with different partners before they’re married. They’re sleeping around, things are exciting – I don’t care what you do, the law of 100 as we’ve mentioned before, that sex hits an unexciting decline after you’ve done it with a person a certain amount of times. If you plan on being married for 40 years, you’re going to be bored. In fact, the majority of your time together is going to be filled with boredom, and sex will probably get boring after three years maximum. And I’m saying maximum.
As reiterated. Nothing is perfect. Marriages fail because the expectation is perfection. You should expect pain, you should expect to be disappointed, you should not treat it like a gold medal as either a man or a woman and you should expect to feel like you’re sacrificing yourself and much of your life. You should expect all of these things – but instead women do what Hollywood says, what Shakespeare says and what the Disney princess narrative says – you will be satisfied and swept away. It will not fulfill your life’s meaning either as the writer says she expected.
Men, this is being preached because it is a warning that you will likely never be good enough. This is why the Christian church has emphasized looking for a godly woman, because they’re expecting God to be good enough. Instead, women of today’s world expect you to be good enough and to be perfect. Subconsciously you’re replacing God in their minds. Thus, where are you going to go? What are you going to do? You’re probably going to be divorced, okay. That’s just the way it is. My warning.
And the really scary things is that you used to be able to say that a marriage rooted in faith would save a marriage. Not so any more. The world is rife with weeds. Weeds envelope good things. Weeds are enveloping these good things today. The garden is getting smaller and smaller.
My advice. Either don’t do it, or treat it like you’re choosing between the red and green wire before the explosion of 500 pounds of nitroglycerin, Fight Club style.
3) The women now in the work world – applying power and responsibility to her that either overwhelms her, makes her resent the man or gives her status that puts her in the position that she can believe she can safely jettison the man.
So, in this article the author brings up that many women are simply overwhelmed and cannot handle the large amount of stress and responsibility that is thrown upon them between being married, being a mother, being a wife, working and living whatever other lifestyle they have designed for themselves.
The thing is, the man has always been expected to do that, and today, the man is also expected to be beyond involved with the kid. Almost to an alien-esque level of ability and commitment, and anything short of that is perceived to be neglectful today.
The responsibilities have also never been higher for women. But, this extra responsibility of working is not something that men have demanded or created. The article says two things:
“Husbands of female breadwinners are most at risk for cheating, says study.”
“We now tell women that they can have it all, that they can work and have a family and deserve to be sexuall satisfied. And then when having it all is miserable and overwhelming or they realize marriage isn’t all it’s cracked it up to be, maybe having affairs is the new Plan B.”
What’s going on here is that women are feeling overwhelmed by these additional responsibilities, and when these responsibilities are often socially constructed and not innately natural, as is the case for women working certain jobs, you know what happens – women resent men for making them work these jobs, feeling over-stressed or unappreciated because it is obtuse in relation to what is natural.
This is not to say that many women do a really good job in a number of occupations today. I’ve worked with a lot of females that do good work, work hard, have developed skills and so forth. But when you combine it with a marriage? That marriage is going to be far more difficult.
And the other thing is that, men have ego problems in regard to this. There are obviously guys that would be okay with being the stay-at-home dad and not raising the kids in the family. There surely are guys. Am I one of those guys? No, and I can never imagine being that guy. As a result, we are seeing so much male suicide today because not only are the jobs being given to women and taken away from men, when they’re in a relationship and this happens, the female breadwinner takes truly the most important value that a man has innately and as ascribed by our biological push, which is to work and make the money.
No wonder the man is trying to cheat. Should he cheat? No, he should address the problem at hand. Always address the problem. Nobody is condoning cheating here, he should not be married in the first place and that’s why I made the “You Can Lose Your Job” video. Because you can lose your job and you don’t have to suffer these same monetary and emotional consequences if you’re single.
Lastly, no man is making a woman work. No man in a relationship is thinking about how good of a career she is going to have. Sure, a man would like it if she contributed to the bottom line, but no man is going to base his attraction and marital decision on her career prospects. Nobody. But that’s the image in many people’s minds today, that the man is forcing the woman to work. My sister is married to a guy that is very successful in a major tech company in the United States, probably making $150K a year. She was unemployed at the time of dating him. She always felt like she didn’t measure up and had to have a great job, yet, he asked her to be his wife.
I would always tell her, he doesn’t want you for the money or to have a good job. He wants you for the company. He wants you for the support. He wants you to be an ego-boost, it’s true, when he comes home after being berated at work all day.
Those are the things that he wants and that he desires. Not that you’re a CEO. Nobody is putting this on you, it’s a product of the feminist movement and the women empowerment culture of today, it’s not a product of men pushing for it.
Instead, we are pushing for MGTOW. And while you’re hopefully never going to see a MGTOW scribe getting on CNN, as that’s not necessarily the platform that would instill the most pride in me as a man, I hope that more men share these messages to the younger generation before they get into the pitfalls of marriage. Because marriage does not mean what it was meant to mean. It’s tainted by the world, it’s as if you’re walking through a bullet-ridden street of France during the heat of a WWII skirmish. The bullets are everywhere.
But, today men, it is not this day. It’s Saturday and I want you guys to think about these things. Ponder these things as you fix up stuff around your place, do homework, watch football, whatever it is. Be at peace, take note, and understand that the lunacy around you is something that you don’t have to partake in.
If you want to hit me up guys, either just to chat, to have a correspondence, to request a topic or whatever, please do at firstname.lastname@example.org or @sunrisehoodie through my Twitter account. Both will work wonderfully.
As always men, pop those hoodies. Hoodie is up, hoodie is out.