MGTOW men, welcome back.
Oh, hoodie, you’re getting a little friendly with the world!
Going MGTOW ensures that I don’t have to buy stock in the world. Living outside of that means that you have to become a greater stockholder in the world. I want to leave that.
I’m going my own way because I don’t want to have to buy into the world. If you want to buy into the world, you can’t go your own way because you have to surrender yourself to the security provided in the entities that are around you.
What do I mean being an enemy of the world? What do I mean being a friend to the world?
- I didn’t want to want things too much
- I didn’t want to have to have things
- I didn’t want the approval of the world
- I wanted to know that I could always give comfort away
- I wanted to know that I could always first answer to my moral compass, not to the compass of acceptance.
It’s not violent, it’s not malicious. It doesn’t seek revenge. It doesn’t seek attention. It doesn’t seek anything. It seeks life. The world is a symbol for regret, because that means that you were not genuine. You were not yourself.
This is true because the world says that it will provide such and such and give you inspiration for such and such if you just enter into agreement with it. Just look at the criticism that is offered between the red pill community and the world that exists all around. The MGTOW man is leaving provision and he is going his own way, but he is criticized for it because he’s not entering into agreement.
Those that are enemies to the world are actually in what I believe, to be the greatest helps and the greatest allies for those that are in the world. That’s the interesting dichotomy about being an enemy of the world. I always say this about MGTOW – MGTOW men are the men that are most needed by society, yet society doesn’t want them. Society wants the man that is actually not pursuing that which will probably help society out the most in the long term.
We are unwanted. We are unwanted people, I’m not going to say group, but I realize that by me using the MGTOW tags in my videos and so forth, what I say is going to be looped into what all MGTOW men say or I’m going to be believed to operate as a community. No, we are all our separate MGTOW men, being framed as dangerous enemies to the world. Actually, give things enough time, and you’ll realize that the MGTOW is actually very much so a friend of the world, he’s just a friend that has been turned away and told that he’s not wanted in many ways — maybe not just not wanted, but not deserving.
As I always do on Sundays, I look at a passage from the Bible and I relate it to my view of MGTOW philosophy and how it has impacted my own understanding and coming to the red pill thought provided in MGTOW.
In my reading this morning, I was reading 1 John and I came across one of my favorite lines, summarizing what it means for me as both a Christian and a MGTOW.
It is 1 John 2:15-17, on loving the world and hating the world.
“15Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Fatherd is not in them. 16For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—comes not from the Father but from the world. 17The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.”
Love of the world is enmity to God. Regardless of what you view of the Bible, I think that we can almost all agree that within MGTOW, we are trying to remove the affection that we may have had for the world at some point. What does being of the world connote? For me, loving the world means pride. Loving the world means investment into things that don’t have value, and mostly, are there for man’s praise.
Here’s where the connection is. Love of the world means man’s praise. Man’s praise equals status and protection. Status and protection equals provision and leverage and that very much so turns into attention and value from the wider community, and here’s where hypergamy comes into play. Here’s where Briffault’s Law comes into play.
When I dated, I felt myself becoming like the world again. Interestingly enough, as I became like the world, sure, my career started to unfold and improve. I was satisfied in that, I was getting somewhere, opportunities were unfolding, other areas of my life were taking steps in the direction that I wanted, but at the same time, I was realizing that the scales were not balanced. There was too much love, and not enough dismissal. Because of that, I was creating too much security, and ironically, at the same time, becoming more insecure. As you create more security, you often become more insecure.
This is because I was creating more that I had to lose, namely status, job, position in other areas of life, accomplishments, rapport with people and my upward mobility. A lot of this was fueled at the time by dating, by the women that I was with, and I wanted to make sure that I could continue to become welcomed by the world and loved by the world as a brother, as a worthwhile man. I enjoyed the flesh of it, but I was growing more and more uncertain and fearful all at the same time. All the more paranoid, and all the more lost.
Basically, I find it very hard to be an enemy of the world outside of a MGTOW life. A MGTOW life allows me to live an unashamed life that is an enemy to the world. I’ll admit, I still want to accomplish things of the world, career wise, personal goals, respect, leverage. Sure, but it’s all for me and the expectations that I have of myself, not wanting to fall short of the minas and talents that has been entrusted to me, bottom line.
When I dated, the world crept back in. When I pursued the courting life, the world crept back in, because the act of fending off hypergamy means buying more and more into the world everyday, and that sickened my heart. My heart grew weak with that thought. My heart grew limp and it lost the vim and vigor that I had as a red pill man, even before I dated and had any experience dating.
It’s funny to reflect. While I was not making it anywhere in the “world”, I was more of an enemy in the world, but as I became more amicable with the world the further that I got along.
I know that many of you guys can probably relate at some extent to your past. I think of the single man, the single man that’s not married but is trying to play the game hard, trying to play the game hard to get his experience up so he can eventually get married and move from the nice condo in the city to the nice home in the suburbs. He has to become a friend of the world, because only a very few, very skilled, very independently wealthy men, and I’m sure that there are some of you also that are listening, that have that leverage — but he has to become a friend of the world to remain relevant on the sexual marketplace.
I don’t want to become a friend of the world to remain relevant on the sexual marketplace. I want to be passé on the sexual marketplace, but an enemy at the world at the same time. Nobody outside of MGTOW can understand this, but I truly believe that the beneficial and life giving elements of this world and in life are those that are backwards, and MGTOW is backwards to so many.
For those that get past shaming MGTOW, they then will likely see MGTOW as backwards. They will just see it as schizophrenia, as a mental illness that can’t be remedied. They will just see it as a problem of the soul that can’t be fixed, but it’s okay, this reminds me of another passage that I want to read that I came across this morning from John 10:19.
19 The Jews who heard these words were again divided. 20 Many of them said, “He is demon-possessed and raving mad. Why listen to him?”
21 But others said, “These are not the sayings of a man possessed by a demon.Can a demon open the eyes of the blind?”
Not saying MGTOW is divine, haha, but quite literally, people will say that you as a MGTOW man, how you live your life, is reflective of a demon. It’s reflective of a life in sickness. Once again, sickness to the world, is health in reality.
MGTOW men, individuals that are enemies that don’t fight. I’m living as an enemy to this world in the sense of the checklist that is required in order to be a friend, and I’m fine with that.
Hoodies up, hoodie is out.